True Life Story : Mother Who Abandoned Her Children Now Wants To Come Back

True Life Story : Mother Who Abandoned Her Children Now Wants To Come Back

Dear all,

I need your advise. My mom is trying to divide my home. When I was 9 years old, my mom abandoned my dad with us and married someone else. My dad loved my mom so much that he refused to get married for almost 2 years. He met my step mom who was very loving and very kind to me and my younger sister. She took us as her own and even did better than our mom. Our mother abandoned us for several years but step mom was the best.

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Few years ago, we learnt my mom divorced her husband and was now single. After 10 years of abandoning us, my mom started trying to get back in our lives. I was very hurt and did not want anything to do with her, only my younger sister was trying to give her a second chance. Now, I am in my 300 level in university. My mother has been asking me to come and spend sometime with her so grudgingly, myself and my sister decided to spend some time with her.

Our dad drove us to her city and I expected him to go back same day or stay in a hotel, instead, he stayed with us in my mom’s house that day until it was late. I was wondering what this man was about to do. Surprisingly, my dad stayed back in my mom’s house that night. I was upset and asked my dad the next morning, why he did that. He is married to my step mom who is a kind and loving soul, why would you spend the night with your ex?

My dad explained that his love for my mother would never go away even though she left him for another man for 10 whole years. My dad left in the morning but you need to see the way my mom was all over him, kissing and hugging him. I was disgusted. But my younger sister was happy cos she always prayed for my parents to reconcile. My mother has a son with her ex and the boy is with the father. Typical, she always leave her children with their fathers. I am very upset that I could not stay the vacation with my mother. We had so many arguments. I told her she was selfish and reckless.

Why would she abandon us for 10 years? Why would she come back now to destroy my step mom’s marriage? My mom is upset that I am supposed to be happy she is coming back to my dad instead I am taking my step mom’s side. My mom called me a bad girl and a witch. I started crying and told her I want to go back to my dad’s place. I did not enjoy my stay there at all. I eventually cut the trip short and went back home. Coming back, I have refused to speak to my dad.

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I cannot bear the fact that he cheated on step mom. My dad says I am a child, that I will not understand. I am 19 years old. I darn well understand. My mom is using my dad’s feelings to take advantage of him. And my dad is blinded by his feelings to hurt my step mom who has no idea what is happening behind her back. I am so upset, should I tell my step mom or let her find out herself? I love my step mom so much, she is better than my mom 1,000 times.

The fact that I love my step mom more than my mom, does that make me a bad daughter? Am I being disloyal to my mom? Should I tell my step mom? I am not happy, I wish my mom would disappear from where she came from. I dont want her…I dont need her…she was never there when I needed her….how can she just come back and try to scatter the home that was my peace for the last 10 years? Why are men so gullible….why is my dad cheating on such a good woman?

I need answers and advise….please make it make sense for me…I feel so much anger and rage and h@tred for my mom right now. Does that make me a witch like my mom said? What do I do please?

Anonymous

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