Category: Relationship

After 16 Years, I Finally Escaped My Abusive Wife ...

When we first got married, I had a good job and a stable financial foundation. Money was not a problem. She would ask me, and I wo...

Our Wedding Was Two Weeks Away When the Doctor Gav...

Two weeks before our wedding, our test results from the hospital came out, and we were called to go for them. We were sitting in t...

My Mom Divorced My Dad After He Cheated, Now He’s ...

My mom called me one evening, crying on the phone. My heart stopped beating. I thought my dad was dead. For several seconds, she c...

My Mother-in-Law Locked Us Out of Our Own House Be...

My wife’s mother came to live with us right from the onset of our marriage. I had reservations about it, but she assured me she wo...

They Beat Me Because I Was Sleeping With Another M...

After I moved into my new house, I became very good friends with my neighbour, who was very kind and started cooking and doing my ...

The Romantically Certain Man in an Age of Romantic...

Everyone today is uncertain. No one knows what he or she wants or what to do. Thus, if you can become a Man of Certainty, YOU can ...

Tactics Tuesdays: Values-Based Cold Reads

Leaving Sets & Girls: Hook Her Harder with a Full ...

Want girls to treat you extra well? Sometimes all it takes is to leave their side once, let them miss you, and reapproach them aga...

Elicit Her Emotions & Create a Powerful Connection...

Go beyond small talk. Learn to elicit her emotions and create a powerful connection by exploring her feelings, not just her facts....

Why Did Men Quit Trying to Learn to Seduce Women?

A decade ago, men wanted to learn to seduce women. Today, few men bother. The reasons are various… from social skills to Chad to ‘...

What Is Mobility Training and Why Does It Matter?

The Dos and Don'ts of Mobility Training

Roommate Syndrome in Marriage: 10 Tiny Hacks That ...

Feel more like roommates than lovers? Roommate syndrome is one of the most fixable things that happens to a marriage. Here are 10 ...

La La Land Date Night: The City of Stars Date You ...

A La La Land-inspired date night you can do anywhere - stargazing at a local observatory, a picnic with a view, live jazz, and the...

How Do I Tell My Heartbroken Friend To Shut Up?

I love my friend. I cannot even explain how much I love her. But I am getting tired of her ranting. She talks too much for my liki...

My Sister Found Another Woman In My Boyfriend’s Ro...

My dad died very early. I was very young. When I was in my first year at university, my mom also died in my sister’s arms. When we...

I Dated My Male Best Friend, and I Have Known No J...

I got divorced after exactly two years of marriage. I didn’t see it coming, but it came and landed right at my doorstep. My husban...

My Husband Was Jailed for 15 Years, but His Family...

My husband went to work one day and never returned. The next time we heard from him, he had been arrested and was in police custod...

I’m 30 and Still Don’t Know What I’m Doing With My...

I wrote WASSCE two times before I got the chance to see what a university looked like. Once in 2015, once in 2017. Grit, strength,...

Should You Look for Indicators of Interest (IOIs) ...

Women often signal interest with their expressions and behavior. But should you wait for these indicators of interest or make move...

21 Things Women Want But Don’t Ask For

21 things women want but don’t ask for are often the unsaid desires that make a relationship tick. Women might not always spell ou...

The Drawing Date Night: Bring Disney’s Animation A...

Turn YouTube into your own Animation Academy! This free at-home drawing date night for couples includes our favorite tutorial link...

The Monthly Anniversary Tradition That Made My Gra...

A simple monthly anniversary tradition made one woman feel cherished for 66 years — and it cost almost nothing. Here's the story, ...

My Husband Wants Me To Send Money To His Parents B...

My husband has been unemployed for a year and a half. He doesn’t want to do anything else apart from getting back into the corpora...

After Two Miscarriages, I Finally Got Pregnant But...

The day I announced my pregnancy to my husband, our house help was there. She had been with us for two years and might have notice...

The Fertility Problem Is His, But My Husband Says ...

I have been married to my husband for four years, and we still don’t have any children. For the past four years, we have done ever...

I Sponsored My Boyfriend for Four Years, Then He D...

After four years of dating, my boyfriend finally came to pay my bride price. That day, I felt like the happiest woman on earth. I ...

My Ex Is Angry I Won’t Take Him Back After Everyth...

My ex-boyfriend and I broke up about eight months ago after I caught him cheating on me not once, not twice, but three different t...

Thirty Years Later

What Makes Relationships Last? Lessons from 30 Years of Marriage and the Gottman Institute The post Thirty Years Later appeared fi...

She's Wet and Willing But Won't Sleep With You? Yo...

When attraction isn't the issue, last minute resistance is often about comfort. This breakdown of two real cases shows why backing...

Do Women Leave Men Who Fall on Hard Times?

Women break up with and divorce men who’ve been fired or lost their businesses at far higher rates. The reason why is biology; and...

Tactics Tuesdays: Responding to Disqualification T...

How you respond when a girl disqualifies you by talking up other guys determines where the seduction goes from there – and whether...

Be Sexy, Not Handsome; Be Smooth, Not Successful

AFCs focus on the wrong things to attract women, like handsomeness and success. What actually attracts women is adjustable: sexine...

Why to Be CURIOUS About the Girl You Want to Seduc...

Many men approach seduction from an incurious perspective: find the girl, say the words, do the things, get sex. But they miss one...

How to Own Your Masculinity Today

Feeling neutered? Has your masculinity been stripped away? It's time to reawaken your manhood, and we're going to show you...

Mental Health For Men

We men are shy about physical ailments - but even more so about mental health.

At-Home Pizookie Date Night: The Easy Skillet Cook...

A quick, cozy at-home date night for busy couples — make a warm Pizookie skillet cookie together, top it with ice cream, and enjoy...

The Movie Night Snack Challenge: Turn “Let’s Just ...

Turn an ordinary Netflix night into a real date with the Movie Night Snack Challenge! Split up at Target or Walmart, secretly pick...

Alphabet Dating: 350+ A to Z Date Ideas (With a Fu...

Alphabet dating made easy! 350+ A to Z date ideas for couples — and every single idea links to a full date night plan, many with f...

The Paper Tablecloth Date Night: Pizza, Candleligh...

No babysitter? Tight budget? The Paper Tablecloth Date Night turns the pizza you were already ordering into a candlelit at-home da...

The Target Face Match Date: The Free Date Night Th...

The Target Face Match Date is the hilarious, totally-free date night trending everywhere — hunt the aisles of Target or Walmart fo...

I Am Willing to Join My Boyfriend’s Church as a Wi...

A mutual friend of my boyfriend and me recently warned me. He begged me to be very careful about my boyfriend. “He is dating both ...

I Went To A Colleague’s House To Cook And Ended Up...

I carried a meal to work one day, and Josh, a colleague in my office, joined me to eat it. He asked where I had bought the food fr...

I Didn’t Know My Girlfriend Had a Child Until Her ...

I live with my parents. When our relationship started, I told her about it, and she didn’t have a problem with that. She also live...

He Said God Chose Me to Be His Wife, But This Is H...

One day, a friend approached me with a marriage proposal. This was not someone I had ever been in a relationship with or someone I...

My Boyfriend Has Been Sleeping With My Male Best F...

I’m 24, and he’s 42. We’ve been together for a little over two years. I dated him because I saw no red flags glaring in my face. H...

Last Minute Resistance Solved: How to Prevent LMR ...

Last Minute Resistance (LMR) is frustrating… but prevention beats reaction every time. This guide shows you how to stay chill, avo...

Frozen Breath, Fierce Heart

Trapped in ice, a mother fights to save twins she was meant to lose. STORY INTRODUCTION He locked me in a freezer that night. The ...

The Foundation of Sand

She wasn’t meant to be here.Not in the light.Not in their world.But something inside her pulled her forward.Let’s begin. CHAPTER 1...

Date Ideas for Every Love Language

Fun, evergreen date ideas for every love language — words of affirmation, quality time, acts of service, receiving gifts, and phys...

My Wife Says I Am Her Enemy of Progress, But I Don...

There is something happening in my house that I do not understand. It doesn’t make one bit of sense. Some days ago, I stood in fro...

I Feel Like I Have No Other Choice but to Call My ...

After SHS, I stayed at home for close to five years before I started school. It was through the benevolence of Eben, a man I start...

My Dad Didn’t Forgive Me Until He Walked Me Down t...

When I was eighteen and had just completed SHS, I experimented with sex for the first time in my life, and I got pregnant. The guy...

This is My Second Pregnancy For My Sister’s Brothe...

When my elder sister was getting married, I was the maid of honor. I had met her husband on several occasions, and he called me hi...

My Colleague at Work Introduced Her Boyfriend To M...

I had closed from work one day and was standing by the roadside waiting for a car when one stopped right next to me. When the wind...

The Rhythm of Repair

Learn why partners have different timelines for repairing after conflict and how understanding your repair rhythm can strengthen y...

9 Signs She's Close to Breaking Up with You

When she’s close to breaking up with you, it doesn’t show up as anger or drama. It shows up as WITHDRAWAL. Here are the nine (9) k...

The Night They Forgot to Love Me

Sometimes the people closest to you are the ones who hurt the most. STORY INTRODUCTION They smiled like everything was normal. Lik...

The Key I Never Turned

Coming home was supposed to heal me. Instead, it broke me all over again. After three years in prison, I thought I knew what to ex...

I Asked My New Boyfriend to Take an STD Test. He E...

He chased me for over a month. I loved his consistency and decided to give him a chance. The very moment I accepted his proposal, ...

I Think My Best Friend Has Feelings for My Ex, and...

I want to know if I am wrong for feeling this way. Isn’t there a girl’s code we are supposed to go by that makes what she is doing...

My Father Rejected Me When I Was A Child Because O...

I was worried as a child because all my friends had fathers except me. I used to bother my mom about my father. Whenever she bough...

The Biggest Lie Some Men of God Keep Telling Women

I don’t understand. I will never understand what men of God mean when they say they want a God-fearing woman, yet when it comes to...

I Want My Husband To Pay Rent For Living in My Fat...

I was heavily pregnant when my husband lost his job. All of a sudden, life became bleak. We would lie in bed at night but never re...

Do You Need to Look Perfect to Attract Girls?

Many modern men – looksmaxxers (or ‘dandies’ as they used to be called) – think you must look perfect to get women. But women are ...

Set Your Sexual Frames with Women Early (and Entir...

Players often view last minute resistance before sex as “just part of the game.” But what if you could avoid it entirely – just by...

Fame Game, Pt. 2: Building Girl-Attracting Fame

If you want to get famous, you need to think about what kind of fame you want. And if you want the kind that attracts women, that’...

Why Desire Decreases After Thirty and How to Boost...

Desire is an essential part of any relationship. But what happens when you hit thirty and suddenly find that your desire isn’t wha...

People Belonging To These Zodiac Signs Are The Bes...

People belonging to certain zodiac signs are often said to be the best in bed, bringing unique energy and passion to intimate mome...

Couple’s Pictionary: The Memory Drawing Date Night...

Looking for a creative at-home date night? Couple's Pictionary turns your favorite relationship memories into hilarious drawings, ...

He Said It Was My Fault He Did What He Did to Me

Only my sister and friend know what my boyfriend has done to me. I said no. He said yes. I struggled in his arms, but when a man i...

If I Could Turn Back Time, I Would Have Married Hi...

I like marriage. I love marriage, the idea of it, the beauty of it, the joy of knowing you have someone who will always be there f...

My Pastor Asked Me to Keep Our Relationship Secret...

I visited a church for the first time one day, and this young pastor who preached that day approached me. He said he hadn’t seen m...

I Gave My Husband GH₵10,000 to Rent a House And He...

When we got married, the understanding was that we were going to live in my husband’s parents’ house for a while, maybe a few mont...

I Helped a Struggling Single Mother Until I Found ...

There’s this single mother in my area who comes to our house on weekends to beg for menial jobs. She would clean for peanuts or wa...

Love on a Tuesday Afternoon

On the 30th anniversary of The Gottman Institute, we reflect on the things that have and haven't changed in relationship science. ...

Transitioning Smoothly Between Conversation Topics...

Conversations feel disjointed if the topics in them don’t seem to connect. But how do you get loose conversation topics to connect...

Skilled Seducer of the Month, July 2026: Jake

PhD scientist and a virgin till 22, Jake has since racked up nearly 200 lays in the 8 years since, leveraging apps like Tinder. Ja...

Can a Zinc Deficiency Cause Erectile Dysfunction?

The Link Between Zinc and Erectile Dysfunction, Explained

The Marriage Hack That Turned Doing Dishes Into Ou...

There comes a point in almost every marriage when romance is slowly crowded out by dishes, laundry, work, kids, homework, sports p...

I Married the Man Who Couldn’t Take Me on Dates, Y...

We met in Dubai. We were working at the same company, but in different departments. Because of him, my male friends started becomi...

I Don’t Want to Hate My Aunty, But I Don’t Know Ho...

I was my mother’s third-to-last child, but I was her favourite. The things my siblings would do and earn a sharp remark from her, ...

I Lost My Family the Day My Sister Married a Rich ...

Three years ago, my sister got married to a rich guy from a very noble family. Right after the wedding, my sister’s attitude chang...

When a Catholic Priest Tried To Heal Me, He Ended ...

We were very close to getting married when, one day, Martin, a man I’d dated for four years, ghosted me. He didn’t respond to my c...

I Was Managing Four Side Chicks And a Wife Until O...

At one point in time, I was dating four women and was on my way to getting the fifth when a voice spoke to me, “Are you not tired?...

Why Women Resist Sex: The 3 Main Causes of LMR (+ ...

Last minute resistance (LMR) stops many men from reaching sex with a woman they like. But the commonest causes of LMR are not alwa...

There are four stages of love I discovered from th...

Life is in phases, men are in sizes. There are four stages of love I discovered from the principles of life. One, love for God, th...

I Thought I Was Marrying Him, But I Ended Up Marry...

He lived with his mom when we met. It was a problem for me, but he told me not to worry because his mom was the coolest mom in the...

Escalation Windows: How Women Make the Mating Danc...

When a woman likes a man, she opens an escalation window for him. Whether he takes that window determines whether things proceed o...

I Paid His Rent When He Was Broke But He Wanted To...

After three months of dating, he suggested we should get married. I told him I didn’t know him well enough and couldn’t introduce ...

He Said He Likes Me Because Of What I Do For a Liv...

Out of nowhere, right in the middle of our conversation, he confessed his undying love for me. I wasn’t expecting that. After the ...

I Thought Prayer Had Broken the Curse Until My Hus...

My mom raised us on her own. We are three siblings from two different fathers. After our fathers, my mom had other relationships t...

My Fiancé Believes Marriage Should Have Secrets. A...

We are getting married soon. My boyfriend and I.  The knocking ceremony has been held, and preparations for the wedding are alread...

Am I Throwing Away a Good Woman Because I Want Mor...

My girlfriend and I have been dating for about two years and some months now. Before love came into the picture, we were very good...

Enhancing Individual Patient Care

Learn how to prioritize the individual patient within the dyad. Discover why the Gottman Relationship Checkup is the premier tool ...

Can a Narcissist Change? What the Research Says Ab...

Wondering if your partner can change? Learn what the research actually shows about whether a narcissist can change and how to reco...

How to Deal With a Narcissist

How to deal with a narcissist, grounded in Gottman's research: spotting contempt, easing flooding, and noticing whether repair is ...

Attraction's Not About What You "Have." It's About...

Inexperienced men worry about what they have: looks, height, money, muscles, status. But experienced lovers know it’s all about wh...

When Moving Girls or Requesting Compliance, the Gi...

Women reject moves and compliance requests on autopilot if they’re unengaged. But ask once they’re engaged, and their autopilot wo...

Static vs. Contingent Value: Why Being "The Man" i...

Your confidence travels. Your social status doesn't. Learn the difference before you walk into a room that doesn't know your name....

Why Do Girls Tell & Show Some Guys EVERYTHING?

There are men women spill their sexual histories to, undress in front of, and even ask for opinions on nudes. What makes these guy...

Fixing the Playboy's Retention Problems: When Girl...

Many playboys skilled at bedding girls, and even continuing to see them for a bit, struggle to hold onto them longer term. Here’s ...

The Earring I Was Never Meant to Find

Three years of marriage. One hidden truth. A knock that changed everything. STORY INTRODUCTION She found an earring. Not hers. Not...

5 Signs Your Partner Isn’t Enjoying Intimacy You S...

5 Signs Your Partner Isn’t Enjoying Intimacy can be subtle or glaring, but they’re key to notice if you want a healthy relationshi...

50+ Love Notes & Free Printables for Your Spouse

50+ love notes, free printables, and quick romantic gestures for your spouse — punny cards, candy-pairing notes, lunchbox letters,...

The 30 Day Love Challenge for Couples

The Divas 30 Day Love Challenge — thirty quick, easy ways to show your spouse you love them. A do-it-anytime daily journey to fall...

Why You Should Never Stop Dating Your Spouse (Even...

The wedding made you husband and wife. Never stop being boyfriend and girlfriend. Have you ever looked at your marriage and though...

15+ Long-Distance Relationship Ideas, Dates & Gift...

Long-distance date ideas, love notes, surprises, and gifts to keep the spark alive across any number of miles — with free printabl...

40+ Christmas Date Ideas, Gifts & Traditions for C...

40+ Christmas ideas for couples — cozy date nights, love notes, family traditions, gifts, and a tasteful sexy-Christmas section, a...

He Wanted To Marry Me On Credit But Three Days Bef...

On our first day of counseling at my church, the counselor asked us to be very honest while he asked very intimate questions about...

My Affair With My Teacher Is Destroying My Life

I was in JHS Three when she came to do her national service. She was so beautiful that she became the favorite of everyone in our ...

I Was My Mom’s Favourite Until I Married A Man She...

I was my mom’s favorite. From childhood, I got everything first, even before my siblings ever got it. I was the middle child, and ...

I Can’t Even Face My Mother Because Of What I Did ...

The last time I heard from my baby daddy was in October last year. That was when I was asking for all the money he owed me. He ask...

I Found Out My Wife Was Telling Her Boss About Our...

My wife and her boss were in school together, so when my wife started working with the company and found him there, they built a r...

“I Can Never Be Any Woman's Dream man, I Have My R...

From my knowledge of the books I have read on relationships, marriage, divorce and breakups. I have come to built myself before my...

What I Learned About Being an Emotion-Coaching Dad...

A Father's Day reflection on raising emotionally connected boys in a world where men don't talk about feelings. The post What I Le...

Feminine Vibe vs. Masculine Vibe: Why Acting Less ...

Not sure if a feminine vibe kills attraction or actually helps? This feminine vs. masculine vibe guide reveals why acting less “ma...

If You Don't Sleep with Her Today, She'll Be Gone ...

Living with a Woman, Part 3: Ground Rules for Live...

Sex, chores, finances, and more – what should your rules be when living with a woman? I lay ‘em out here… in contrast to what both...

Picking Up Girls in Clubs Where It's Too Loud to T...

Pickup in super loud clubs comes down to 3 things: looks, nonverbals, & physical game. That means YOUR focus should be peacocking,...

Girls Chase Comic: Looksmaxx vs. Game

Further reading: How Come Looksmaxxed Men Don't Get Laid? Do You Really Need to Learn Game to Get Girls?

4 Things You Should Never Do Before Intimacy for L...

Four things you should never do before intimacy can be the difference between a night of connection and a night of disappointment....

Daily Horoscope for Friday, June 12, 2026

Navigate through a day of introspection with the Moon in Taurus and Mercury square Saturn, urging patience and careful communicati...

Daily Horoscope for Saturday, June 13, 2026

Saturday's horoscope highlights a productive mood with Taurus Moon's stability and Mercury sextile Mars boosting communication and...

Daily Horoscope for Sunday, June 14, 2026

Embrace fresh starts with the Gemini New Moon; Mercury sextile Mars boosts communication and energy, urging dynamic conversations ...

No Man Can Resist Women of These 3 Zodiac Signs

I used to think zodiac signs were just fun party talk. I was wrong. Some women, based on their zodiac signs, truly have a magnetic...

Solve a Murder Mystery for Date NIght

A fun Murder Mystery Date Night… Without Leaving Your Couch Sometimes the best nights are the simplest ones. With Death at the Pro...

Sushi Battleship Date Night

The Ultimate At-Home Date Night Showdown let the good times roll! Looking for a date night that’s fun, unique, and doesn’t require...