Category: Relationship

What Is Reactive Abuse…And Can It Be Prevented?

Understanding the dynamic that leads to this escalation is critical in effectively dealing with it. The post What Is Reactive Abus...

Opinion Openers as a Way to Hook Girls In

Old school pickup artists used opinion openers to meet women. Yet asking women for their opinions works even better as a HOOK tech...

How to Use Question-Based Openers to Chat Up Girls

A versatile way to start a conversation with a girl: just ask her a question. Your delivery can be sincere or cheeky… and you can ...

39% of Women Are Doing 80% of the Dating

The majority of first dates are entered into by a minority of women – 39% of women going on 80% of first dates, in fact. It’s an o...

Tactics Tuesdays: "Show Me a Pic"

A simple way to start building compliance with women, even those you’ve just met: find an excuse to have her show you some picture...

My Husband Wants Me to Borrow Money From My Ex for...

My daughter was six years old when I met Daniel. Because I had a daughter, men who came into my life didn’t take relationships wit...

My Wife Secretly Became The Weapon Fashioned Again...

A year after marriage, we got pregnant. My wife had just started her master’s program. I was very happy to know we were going to b...

She Ended a One-Year Relationship With a Single Te...

I was completely shocked when I saw her text on my phone. From my perspective, everything in the relationship seemed to be going w...

My Fiancée Wants Me to Connive With Her to Collect...

Last year, my fiancée and I welcomed a beautiful baby girl into our lives, and around that same time, my fiancée became glued to h...

My Husband Owes Me ¢20,000 and My Life Is Falling ...

In 2017, we got married as young people very much in love. My husband’s dream was to become a wealthy man who could provide for hi...

Pride, Partnership, and the Need for Emotional Ref...

When Gottman therapists assess relationship health, we are looking for three things above all else: the presence of trust, the pre...

Meeting Girls Is Like Working Out

If you know how to work out, you know how to meet girls. The process is identical: build the habit, learn the ropes, use disciplin...

Indirect Game: Why Situational Openers Get Her Att...

Why situational openers work for indirect game. Get her attention naturally, lower rejection risk, and keep the set alive. Hey guy...

Girls Chase Comic: Female vs. Male Communication S...

Men like to take turns in conversation and wait till the other guy’s finished what he’s saying before we jump in and share someth...

Secrets to Getting Girls: Interest Awakening & Int...

When women lose interest or reject men, it isn’t always the same. Sometimes it’s due to interest never awakening – others due to i...

The Reinvention of the American Barbershop

How New Technologies Are Helping Barbers Join the 21st Century

A REELy Fun Date

The easiest at-home date night you’ll actually want to do Stop Sending Reels. Start Saving Them.

BJ Date Night

WIVES– Want a date idea for this weekend that feels flirty, fun, and guaranteed to make your husband smile? Send him a surprise da...

I Became a Detective Because of One Late-Night Cal...

I was with my girlfriend when her phone rang. I took a quick glance to check who was calling at that ungodly hour. The name was sa...

My Husband’s Family Have Given Me the Green Light ...

I met him when I was young and in my prime. He chased me everywhere. Every place I turned, there he was, smiling, promising foreve...

A Letter to My Boss, the Girlfriend Thief

Hello Akosua, I just want you to know that your absence has settled heavily in my life. Some nights, it feels like my chest caves ...

How Can I Forgive And Forget What I Read From My W...

We were very young when we fell in love. I had come home from school, my first year at the university, when I met her. She had als...

He Took Me on a Date and Asked Me Not to Eat Above...

He took me on a date after trying to get my attention for a very long time. He told me he meant no harm and just wanted to know me...

My Boyfriend Loves Cement More Than Me

He calculates everything in cement. I changed my iPhone and he went, “You wasted all that money to buy a phone? Do you know how ma...

My Fiancé Had an Accident With Another Man’s Wife...

It was early morning on August 11th, 2024, when I had a call from my boyfriend’s sister. It was so unusual to get a call from her....

The First Time Was With My Stepdad

When my stepdad started looking at me funny, I told my mom about it. That I wasn’t comfortable with the way he looked at me and th...

My Wife Turns Into a Different Person When She Smo...

My wife studied in Russia. When we were just friends talking through the night and still had things to say in the morning, she tol...

My Marriage Is Ending Because I Gave My Husband’s ...

My husband’s mother loved me from the very beginning, from the days my husband and I first started dating. She never hid it, and I...

Picking Up Girls in Gay Venues Revisited, Pt. 2: P...

Alek Rolstad gets into the nitty-gritty of picking up (straight) girls in a gay bar or club. What’s changed between when he wrote ...

How to Pick Up a Girl for Sex: 9 Steps (Quick Sex ...

My Girlfriend Dumped Me for a Fake U.S Borga

My girlfriend came to tell me she was leaving. I didn’t do anything wrong, and she accepted that it wasn’t my fault she was leavin...

Five Days Before Our Wedding, Her Mother Died And ...

It was a week to our wedding. Not even a week, just five days to our wedding. Monday morning, while getting ready to step out to s...

My Girlfriend Called Me Stingy Because I Couldn’t ...

My girlfriend has a car. I don’t. She visits, and sometimes I help pay for fuel. She was on her way to my place when she accidenta...

I Was Dating Two Men and Gave the Pregnancy to the...

It was my first time at the church service. Everything felt warm, the songs, the prayers, the faces around me. Except when suddenl...

He Beat Me Over Pizza So I’ll Never Tell Him I Hav...

I was in Kumasi while dating him. He lived in Accra. We had met years ago through a friend but didn’t build a relationship until w...

Can Going Direct on Girls Cut Through Women's Auto...

Women you meet out-and-about are ‘on autopilot’, trying to stick with whatever they’re doing. Is ‘going direct’ enough to get past...

I Love My Wife But I Can’t Live a Day Without My S...

My marriage became very boring and routine, and the sad thing was, both of us did nothing to bring a spark to the marriage. I did ...

I Threw My Girlfriend Out After Hearing One Phone ...

My girlfriend lives with me because she hit a hard patch with her rent. She lost her job along the line and for a whole year she d...

When He Cheated, I Forgave Him So Why’s My Husband...

When we were just lovers, I caught him cheating on me with a white lady. It wasn’t hearsay; it was something I found out with my o...

My Girlfriend Went Back to Her Baby Daddy, Got Mar...

Last year, my life took a terrible turn, both financially and in love. It has been over six months, and I am nowhere close to heal...

My Boyfriend Is Planning to Marry Someone Else and...

That morning, he went out to get breakfast for me before leaving for work. While he was gone, something, spirit, instinct, call it...

Tactics Tuesdays: Disagreeing with Yourself

When you state an opinion, only to realize it’s counterproductive, are you cooked? No, not at all. Just DISAGREE with yourself, an...

What Are the Benefits of a Polar Plunge? Here’s Wh...

Plunging Into Icy Waters Can Have These 5 Health Benefits

She Got Angry Because I Didn’t Ask Why She Deleted...

She sent a message telling me to remind her to tell me something in the evening. In the evening, before we said good night, I aske...

She Used Fake Pregnancy To Get Money From Me To Tr...

She was walking a girl to school when I met her. I looked at the girl’s uniform and realized how far the school was from where I m...

My Mother Left My Father in the Village to Chase M...

I am a 28-year-old woman living with my mother. No, my mother is living with me. It was supposed to be a brief visit. What could b...

I’m Pregnant, but I Don’t Know If It’s For My Boyf...

Frimpong was my schoolmate who travelled abroad right after school and came back to Ghana after many years. The very day he set hi...

I Thought I Was Marrying A Man Of God Until I Open...

Two years into our relationship, we were already planning our wedding when my father fell ill. At first, it was just body pains. T...

Would YOU Be Interested in a Webinar on "Relations...

Want to learn my girl-mesmerizing relationship game? Well, I’m not sure I want to teach it! To help me decide, I’d like your opini...

When Women Block Your Escalation Attempts: Escalat...

Women who resist one form of compliance often agree to another. Finding these ‘alternate escalation routes’ can make all the diffe...

Picking Up Girls in Gay Venues Revisited, Pt. 1: H...

Gay venues used to be amazing for picking up women in: super sexual atmosphere and zero competition! They’re still awesome now – j...

Closing Girls on Emotional Highs vs. Letting Them ...

She’s ready to sleep or reunite with you, she just needs some time. But TIME is your enemy in an emotional decision, because these...

10 Surefire Ways to Arouse a Woman You're Talking ...

There’re more ways to arouse women than just touch and talk. In this guide, I give you the full spectrum of tools you can use to g...

Ways Guys Scare Their Crushes Off

It started off pretty promising. You gave them your number. Maybe you even exchanged a few flirty texts. You were finally gearing ...

How to Gamify Your Routines to Make Any Habit Stic...

Use Habit Loops & Rewards to Transform Your Life for the Better

My Stepsister and I Crossed a Dangerous Line We Ca...

When my stepsister returns from school, she usually stays with me. Aba has grown into a very curvy young woman, and I just wanted ...

My Girlfriend Wants Me to Take Care Of Her Child B...

When we started talking, I didn’t know she had a child. We talked for a while, emotions developed, and words were formed. Just bef...

While I Was Taking Care of Her, She Replaced Me Wi...

My girlfriend had a job that paid her pennies. She was always complaining, and I complained too. I told her to hold on while she l...

My Brother Doesn’t Know His Wife Is HIV Positive a...

When my sister-in-law gave birth to her first child, she refused to breastfeed the baby. No matter how much the baby cried, no mat...

I Wanted Her To Be The Mother Of My Children Until...

Our relationship was already falling apart when she got pregnant. That was why I asked her to terminate it. I asked her what she w...

SCOTUS Could Make it Easier for Anti-Abortion Clin...

“Crisis pregnancy centers” offer ideological counseling, not medical care. A campaign to stretch the legal and regulatory loophole...

Sex Workers Remember Victims of Gilgo Beach Killer...

Opinion: The media portrays sex workers as a plot point in Rex Heuermann’s story. But we know violent men, and public conversation...

SCOTUS Made It Easier for Anti-Abortion Clinics to...

“Crisis pregnancy centers” offer ideological counseling—not medical care. A Supreme Court ruling in First Choice Women’s Resource ...

The Federal SAVE Act Will Likely Die in the Senate...

After the Supreme Court gutted the Voting Rights Act, Florida approved a new gerrymandered congressional map. Coupled with a law m...

Therapy: Why Human Services Require a Human Connec...

In most therapy, the connection that often matters most is the one with the therapist. In couples work, it may not be. The post Th...

Finding the Right Online Therapy Format for Your R...

By now, most couples ask whether online therapy works. Fewer ask what kind of therapy they are actually getting. The post Finding ...

The Good and Bad of Resilience

Resilience can carry a couple through almost anything. The "almost" matters more than it sounds. The post The Good and Bad of Resi...

Picking Up Girls in Techno Clubs, Part 2: How to G...

The most selective alternative music & techno clubs can be HARD to get into. You’ll need to play by the ‘alternative venue rules’ ...

Getting Girls to Chase: Give Her a Taste, Then an ...

Is She Testing You Or Is She Auto-Rejecting?

Miss an escalation window, and girls start testing you – but due to auto-rejection, not other reasons. How you respond is critical...

Grooming Awards 2026: Shaving Products

Achieve a Closer Shave and Banish Unsightly Bumps for Good With These Top Shaving Essentials

Grooming Awards 2026: Face Care Products

Upgrade Your Smile, Clear Up Your Skin, and Freshen Your Breath With the Year's Best Grooming Products

The Spooning Sex Position, Explained

If you own more than one spoon, you can likely imagine the position and benefits of spoon sex. Stacking two bodies beside one an...

What Is Cognitive Behavioral Therapy?

Should You Try CBT? The Benefits of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy

How to Set Up for the Classic Powerlifting Movemen...

Expert Technique Advice for the Deadlift, Bench Press and Squat

He Pushed Me Out Pregnant So He Could Be With His ...

I was three months pregnant when my husband asked me to go to my parents. According to him, our first pregnancy needed to be cared...

I Borrowed Money to Save a Friend, Now I Might Pay...

He said the first person who came to mind when he entered trouble was me, because it was my name on his mind the entire time. He n...

My Mom Hates Me And Hates My Wife Because of How I...

My mom doesn’t talk to my wife—actually, she hates her. She hates me too and calls me an embarrassment to my late father. I send h...

He Paid My Rent Then I Met His Pregnant Girlfriend

I was looking for a place to stay, and he offered to pay my rent. I wanted to know why, and he said he wanted to do it because he ...

This Is What Happens When You Build Your World Aro...

My husband met me when I was young. I was 19. I knew that I loved him, and I believed our love would survive the test of time. And...

Culture of Silence Around Abortions for Active-Dut...

A recent study about access for servicewomen couldn’t be completed because only 3 people agreed to participate. The post Culture o...

New Autism Drug? Experts Debunk Federal Officials’...

“There is really no evidence at all that these are meaningful treatments," one researcher said. The post New Autism Drug? Experts ...

Does Depo-Provera Cause Brain Tumors? How To Read ...

The FDA now cautions that this long-acting birth control may increase the risk of meningioma, a tumor in the lining of the brain. ...

Spanberger Signs ‘Momnibus’ Bills as Abortion Oppo...

The new laws aim to boost maternal health in the state, as a political battle brews over a reproductive rights constitutional amen...

Federal Judge Blocks Kennedy’s Anti-Trans Policy

Plus, Pennsylvania Supreme Court rules abortion is a "fundamental right," and Idahoans could soon vote on an abortion ballot measu...

Monk Mode Doesn't Lead to Romantic Success "Later....

The trend of men going ‘monk mode’ – cutting off socializing to work on money & muscles – is exploding. But monk mode doesn’t lead...

My Wife Married Me to Prove a Point to Her Ex and ...

It looks like my wife married me just to shame her ex, some friends and some people in her family, and the more I think about this...

I Was Pregnant Before He Told Me He Was Married So...

We dated for a year, and I got pregnant. I was thirty-three and had already seen him as my husband because he had promised me marr...

Here’s How I Know My Boyfriend Is Preparing to Mar...

I suspect my boyfriend is planning to get married behind my back. Then he will return to me and pretend, placing me in that situat...

I Was Hired To Take Care Of Him But He Had aDiffer...

He had an accident and broke one leg. He was in the hospital for months before he was discharged, still unable to walk. He had to ...

What Could Happen If I Cross the Line With My Wife...

My wife thinks she has the safest marriage. Only that she is about to find out that I am about to cheat on her. I am certain it wi...

Multiple Women Accuse Rep. Eric Swalwell of Sexual...

Plus: DOJ accuses prosecutors of weaponizing law to punish anti-abortion protesters, and Sen. Josh Hawley targets abortion pill ma...

Endometriosis Is Often Excruciating. Pelvic Floor ...

Often prescribed following birth injuries, this treatment may improve common endometriosis symptoms, too, from painful sex and abd...

Black Women’s Health Care Undermined by Trump Poli...

From food assistance to reproductive care, Trump’s signature federal spending bill from 2025 has weakened programs that Black wome...

The Myth of Being “Too Needy” in Relationships

Have you ever been told that you are too needy by your partner? Learn why this may be happening and why the idea of 'too needy' is...

First Girls Chase Comic: Dating App Realities

I felt like having some fun so I created a comic as well as a subdomain to host comics on. I feel like dating is an area that is f...

Picking Up Girls in Techno Clubs, Part 1: Are Tech...

House and techno clubs offer a unique environment for seduction. More open and friendlier than other venues – and ideal for introv...

The Right Way to Rock a Clean Shave

Ditching Your Low-Maintenance Facial Hair? Here's How to Rock the Beardless Look Like a Boss

My Step-Siblings Are About to Start a War Because ...

This story stretches all the way back to 1989, when my mother remarried my stepfather. If I remember correctly, she said it was Go...

He Proposed with a Ring That Belongs To Another Wo...

I was very clear from the beginning that I didn’t want intimacy before marriage. I wasn’t a virgin, but I’d learned that what near...