Category: Relationship

Last Minute Resistance Solved: How to Prevent LMR ...

Last Minute Resistance (LMR) is frustrating… but prevention beats reaction every time. This guide shows you how to stay chill, avo...

Frozen Breath, Fierce Heart

Trapped in ice, a mother fights to save twins she was meant to lose. STORY INTRODUCTION He locked me in a freezer that night. The ...

The Foundation of Sand

She wasn’t meant to be here.Not in the light.Not in their world.But something inside her pulled her forward.Let’s begin. CHAPTER 1...

Date Ideas for Every Love Language

Fun, evergreen date ideas for every love language — words of affirmation, quality time, acts of service, receiving gifts, and phys...

My Wife Says I Am Her Enemy of Progress, But I Don...

There is something happening in my house that I do not understand. It doesn’t make one bit of sense. Some days ago, I stood in fro...

I Feel Like I Have No Other Choice but to Call My ...

After SHS, I stayed at home for close to five years before I started school. It was through the benevolence of Eben, a man I start...

My Dad Didn’t Forgive Me Until He Walked Me Down t...

When I was eighteen and had just completed SHS, I experimented with sex for the first time in my life, and I got pregnant. The guy...

This is My Second Pregnancy For My Sister’s Brothe...

When my elder sister was getting married, I was the maid of honor. I had met her husband on several occasions, and he called me hi...

My Colleague at Work Introduced Her Boyfriend To M...

I had closed from work one day and was standing by the roadside waiting for a car when one stopped right next to me. When the wind...

The Rhythm of Repair

Learn why partners have different timelines for repairing after conflict and how understanding your repair rhythm can strengthen y...

9 Signs She's Close to Breaking Up with You

When she’s close to breaking up with you, it doesn’t show up as anger or drama. It shows up as WITHDRAWAL. Here are the nine (9) k...

The Night They Forgot to Love Me

Sometimes the people closest to you are the ones who hurt the most. STORY INTRODUCTION They smiled like everything was normal. Lik...

The Key I Never Turned

Coming home was supposed to heal me. Instead, it broke me all over again. After three years in prison, I thought I knew what to ex...

I Asked My New Boyfriend to Take an STD Test. He E...

He chased me for over a month. I loved his consistency and decided to give him a chance. The very moment I accepted his proposal, ...

I Think My Best Friend Has Feelings for My Ex, and...

I want to know if I am wrong for feeling this way. Isn’t there a girl’s code we are supposed to go by that makes what she is doing...

My Father Rejected Me When I Was A Child Because O...

I was worried as a child because all my friends had fathers except me. I used to bother my mom about my father. Whenever she bough...

The Biggest Lie Some Men of God Keep Telling Women

I don’t understand. I will never understand what men of God mean when they say they want a God-fearing woman, yet when it comes to...

I Want My Husband To Pay Rent For Living in My Fat...

I was heavily pregnant when my husband lost his job. All of a sudden, life became bleak. We would lie in bed at night but never re...

Do You Need to Look Perfect to Attract Girls?

Many modern men – looksmaxxers (or ‘dandies’ as they used to be called) – think you must look perfect to get women. But women are ...

Set Your Sexual Frames with Women Early (and Entir...

Players often view last minute resistance before sex as “just part of the game.” But what if you could avoid it entirely – just by...

Fame Game, Pt. 2: Building Girl-Attracting Fame

If you want to get famous, you need to think about what kind of fame you want. And if you want the kind that attracts women, that’...

Why Desire Decreases After Thirty and How to Boost...

Desire is an essential part of any relationship. But what happens when you hit thirty and suddenly find that your desire isn’t wha...

People Belonging To These Zodiac Signs Are The Bes...

People belonging to certain zodiac signs are often said to be the best in bed, bringing unique energy and passion to intimate mome...

Couple’s Pictionary: The Memory Drawing Date Night...

Looking for a creative at-home date night? Couple's Pictionary turns your favorite relationship memories into hilarious drawings, ...

He Said It Was My Fault He Did What He Did to Me

Only my sister and friend know what my boyfriend has done to me. I said no. He said yes. I struggled in his arms, but when a man i...

If I Could Turn Back Time, I Would Have Married Hi...

I like marriage. I love marriage, the idea of it, the beauty of it, the joy of knowing you have someone who will always be there f...

My Pastor Asked Me to Keep Our Relationship Secret...

I visited a church for the first time one day, and this young pastor who preached that day approached me. He said he hadn’t seen m...

I Gave My Husband GH₵10,000 to Rent a House And He...

When we got married, the understanding was that we were going to live in my husband’s parents’ house for a while, maybe a few mont...

I Helped a Struggling Single Mother Until I Found ...

There’s this single mother in my area who comes to our house on weekends to beg for menial jobs. She would clean for peanuts or wa...

Love on a Tuesday Afternoon

On the 30th anniversary of The Gottman Institute, we reflect on the things that have and haven't changed in relationship science. ...

Transitioning Smoothly Between Conversation Topics...

Conversations feel disjointed if the topics in them don’t seem to connect. But how do you get loose conversation topics to connect...

Skilled Seducer of the Month, July 2026: Jake

PhD scientist and a virgin till 22, Jake has since racked up nearly 200 lays in the 8 years since, leveraging apps like Tinder. Ja...

Can a Zinc Deficiency Cause Erectile Dysfunction?

The Link Between Zinc and Erectile Dysfunction, Explained

The Marriage Hack That Turned Doing Dishes Into Ou...

There comes a point in almost every marriage when romance is slowly crowded out by dishes, laundry, work, kids, homework, sports p...

I Married the Man Who Couldn’t Take Me on Dates, Y...

We met in Dubai. We were working at the same company, but in different departments. Because of him, my male friends started becomi...

I Don’t Want to Hate My Aunty, But I Don’t Know Ho...

I was my mother’s third-to-last child, but I was her favourite. The things my siblings would do and earn a sharp remark from her, ...

I Lost My Family the Day My Sister Married a Rich ...

Three years ago, my sister got married to a rich guy from a very noble family. Right after the wedding, my sister’s attitude chang...

When a Catholic Priest Tried To Heal Me, He Ended ...

We were very close to getting married when, one day, Martin, a man I’d dated for four years, ghosted me. He didn’t respond to my c...

I Was Managing Four Side Chicks And a Wife Until O...

At one point in time, I was dating four women and was on my way to getting the fifth when a voice spoke to me, “Are you not tired?...

Why Women Resist Sex: The 3 Main Causes of LMR (+ ...

Last minute resistance (LMR) stops many men from reaching sex with a woman they like. But the commonest causes of LMR are not alwa...

There are four stages of love I discovered from th...

Life is in phases, men are in sizes. There are four stages of love I discovered from the principles of life. One, love for God, th...

I Thought I Was Marrying Him, But I Ended Up Marry...

He lived with his mom when we met. It was a problem for me, but he told me not to worry because his mom was the coolest mom in the...

Escalation Windows: How Women Make the Mating Danc...

When a woman likes a man, she opens an escalation window for him. Whether he takes that window determines whether things proceed o...

I Paid His Rent When He Was Broke But He Wanted To...

After three months of dating, he suggested we should get married. I told him I didn’t know him well enough and couldn’t introduce ...

He Said He Likes Me Because Of What I Do For a Liv...

Out of nowhere, right in the middle of our conversation, he confessed his undying love for me. I wasn’t expecting that. After the ...

I Thought Prayer Had Broken the Curse Until My Hus...

My mom raised us on her own. We are three siblings from two different fathers. After our fathers, my mom had other relationships t...

My Fiancé Believes Marriage Should Have Secrets. A...

We are getting married soon. My boyfriend and I.  The knocking ceremony has been held, and preparations for the wedding are alread...

Am I Throwing Away a Good Woman Because I Want Mor...

My girlfriend and I have been dating for about two years and some months now. Before love came into the picture, we were very good...

Enhancing Individual Patient Care

Learn how to prioritize the individual patient within the dyad. Discover why the Gottman Relationship Checkup is the premier tool ...

Can a Narcissist Change? What the Research Says Ab...

Wondering if your partner can change? Learn what the research actually shows about whether a narcissist can change and how to reco...

How to Deal With a Narcissist

How to deal with a narcissist, grounded in Gottman's research: spotting contempt, easing flooding, and noticing whether repair is ...

Attraction's Not About What You "Have." It's About...

Inexperienced men worry about what they have: looks, height, money, muscles, status. But experienced lovers know it’s all about wh...

When Moving Girls or Requesting Compliance, the Gi...

Women reject moves and compliance requests on autopilot if they’re unengaged. But ask once they’re engaged, and their autopilot wo...

Static vs. Contingent Value: Why Being "The Man" i...

Your confidence travels. Your social status doesn't. Learn the difference before you walk into a room that doesn't know your name....

Why Do Girls Tell & Show Some Guys EVERYTHING?

There are men women spill their sexual histories to, undress in front of, and even ask for opinions on nudes. What makes these guy...

Fixing the Playboy's Retention Problems: When Girl...

Many playboys skilled at bedding girls, and even continuing to see them for a bit, struggle to hold onto them longer term. Here’s ...

The Earring I Was Never Meant to Find

Three years of marriage. One hidden truth. A knock that changed everything. STORY INTRODUCTION She found an earring. Not hers. Not...

5 Signs Your Partner Isn’t Enjoying Intimacy You S...

5 Signs Your Partner Isn’t Enjoying Intimacy can be subtle or glaring, but they’re key to notice if you want a healthy relationshi...

50+ Love Notes & Free Printables for Your Spouse

50+ love notes, free printables, and quick romantic gestures for your spouse — punny cards, candy-pairing notes, lunchbox letters,...

The 30 Day Love Challenge for Couples

The Divas 30 Day Love Challenge — thirty quick, easy ways to show your spouse you love them. A do-it-anytime daily journey to fall...

Why You Should Never Stop Dating Your Spouse (Even...

The wedding made you husband and wife. Never stop being boyfriend and girlfriend. Have you ever looked at your marriage and though...

15+ Long-Distance Relationship Ideas, Dates & Gift...

Long-distance date ideas, love notes, surprises, and gifts to keep the spark alive across any number of miles — with free printabl...

40+ Christmas Date Ideas, Gifts & Traditions for C...

40+ Christmas ideas for couples — cozy date nights, love notes, family traditions, gifts, and a tasteful sexy-Christmas section, a...

He Wanted To Marry Me On Credit But Three Days Bef...

On our first day of counseling at my church, the counselor asked us to be very honest while he asked very intimate questions about...

My Affair With My Teacher Is Destroying My Life

I was in JHS Three when she came to do her national service. She was so beautiful that she became the favorite of everyone in our ...

I Was My Mom’s Favourite Until I Married A Man She...

I was my mom’s favorite. From childhood, I got everything first, even before my siblings ever got it. I was the middle child, and ...

I Can’t Even Face My Mother Because Of What I Did ...

The last time I heard from my baby daddy was in October last year. That was when I was asking for all the money he owed me. He ask...

I Found Out My Wife Was Telling Her Boss About Our...

My wife and her boss were in school together, so when my wife started working with the company and found him there, they built a r...

“I Can Never Be Any Woman's Dream man, I Have My R...

From my knowledge of the books I have read on relationships, marriage, divorce and breakups. I have come to built myself before my...

What I Learned About Being an Emotion-Coaching Dad...

A Father's Day reflection on raising emotionally connected boys in a world where men don't talk about feelings. The post What I Le...

Feminine Vibe vs. Masculine Vibe: Why Acting Less ...

Not sure if a feminine vibe kills attraction or actually helps? This feminine vs. masculine vibe guide reveals why acting less “ma...

If You Don't Sleep with Her Today, She'll Be Gone ...

Living with a Woman, Part 3: Ground Rules for Live...

Sex, chores, finances, and more – what should your rules be when living with a woman? I lay ‘em out here… in contrast to what both...

Picking Up Girls in Clubs Where It's Too Loud to T...

Pickup in super loud clubs comes down to 3 things: looks, nonverbals, & physical game. That means YOUR focus should be peacocking,...

Girls Chase Comic: Looksmaxx vs. Game

Further reading: How Come Looksmaxxed Men Don't Get Laid? Do You Really Need to Learn Game to Get Girls?

4 Things You Should Never Do Before Intimacy for L...

Four things you should never do before intimacy can be the difference between a night of connection and a night of disappointment....

Daily Horoscope for Friday, June 12, 2026

Navigate through a day of introspection with the Moon in Taurus and Mercury square Saturn, urging patience and careful communicati...

Daily Horoscope for Saturday, June 13, 2026

Saturday's horoscope highlights a productive mood with Taurus Moon's stability and Mercury sextile Mars boosting communication and...

Daily Horoscope for Sunday, June 14, 2026

Embrace fresh starts with the Gemini New Moon; Mercury sextile Mars boosts communication and energy, urging dynamic conversations ...

No Man Can Resist Women of These 3 Zodiac Signs

I used to think zodiac signs were just fun party talk. I was wrong. Some women, based on their zodiac signs, truly have a magnetic...

Solve a Murder Mystery for Date NIght

A fun Murder Mystery Date Night… Without Leaving Your Couch Sometimes the best nights are the simplest ones. With Death at the Pro...

Sushi Battleship Date Night

The Ultimate At-Home Date Night Showdown let the good times roll! Looking for a date night that’s fun, unique, and doesn’t require...

Her Husband Read Our Messages and I Lost My Best F...

My best friend and I have shared some very confidential conversations. As friends who are so much in love with each other, we shar...

I Have a Child Out There But The Woman I’m About T...

We were together for only three months. Just a three-month relationship has left me with a burden I’ve carried for eight years. We...

REACTION: My Girlfriend Has Not Been The Same Sinc...

If you haven’t read the first part of this story, here’s the link. Kindly read it before starting this one When his story was post...

I’ve Dated Three Women in Two Years and They All F...

I’ve dated three women in the past two years, and they all failed a simple test I gave them. I loved all of them, but in the end I...

The Woman Sleeping With My Husband Called Me To Re...

When I was pregnant with our first child and told my husband, we both jumped into the air with grace and joy, laughing from the pi...

Covert Narcissist Traits: 9 Quiet Signs Most Peopl...

The loud kind is easy to recognize. The covert kind hides behind sensitivity itself — which is why it so often goes unnamed. The p...

How to Improve Emotional Intelligence — the Skill ...

Emotional intelligence can sound like a trait you either have or you don't. It is closer to a vocabulary — and a vocabulary can be...

What Does ‘Estranged’ Actually Mean? Estrangement ...

Estrangement rarely arrives as a slammed door. More often it is a room that slowly empties while everyone is still standing in it....

Who Cares About Being Attractive? Be Unobjectionab...

Far too many men are hung up on ‘attractiveness’. Yet the men who excel with girls don’t care about this. They make themselves uno...

The Masculinity Crisis: My Take on What It Means t...

Alek Rolstad, prolific seducer, academic, lover of women, and coach, shares his take on the modern masculinity crisis and what it ...

Fame Game, Pt. 1: Can Getting Famous Get You Girls...

If you get famous, is it the magic key to unlocking woman success? Well yes, it can help (often lots)… but how much depends on the...

Girls Chase Comic: Learning Not Required

(originally posted on Girls Chase Comics)

The Silence After the Storm

When a lost mother returns, everything falls apart. The night the mansion fell silent was the night everything changed. A little b...

The 3 Best Women To Marry (According To The Zodiac...

There is absolutely no denying the truth that Zodiac signs can reveal about a person’s character and personality. Zodiac signs off...

Daily Horoscope for Monday, June 8, 2026

A Pisces Moon in its Last Quarter phase puts the spotlight on introspection and emotional closure today. As Venus aligns with Jupi...

12 Signs He Doesn’t Want You Sexually You Need to ...

Feeling the chill in the bedroom isn’t just a passing phase. “12 signs he doesn’t want you sexually” is about recognizing those un...

Daily Horoscope for Tuesday, June 9, 2026

Today's energy is defined by the Moon in Pisces forming harmonious trines with Jupiter and Venus, creating a day ripe with creativ...

This Surgeon Is Making Eyelid Surgery Something Me...

There's a version of surgery most men picture when they hear the words. Hospital gown, general anesthesia, a week off work, and a ...

Marriage Doesn’t Come With a Manual… Until Now

Ever Wish Your Spouse Came With an Instruction Manual? Have you ever caught yourself thinking: If so, you’re definitely not alone....

I Told My Husband What My Dad Did To Me When I Was...

My stepfather came into our lives when I was in my early teens. Before him, other men had come and played with us, promising to be...

I Have a Secret That Could Destroy My Brother’s Ma...

When my brother’s wife was pregnant, I was there for her. I stayed in their home and helped her with whatever she needed because m...

She Says She’s Leaving for a Job in Another City. ...

My girlfriend of seven years wants to leave me under the guise of relocating to another city to find a job. I am not against her l...

My Boyfriend’s Wife Has Taken My Place In His Life...

I met him when I went to submit a letter to an organization for sponsorship of our school program. He was the one who took me thro...

He Says He Loves Single Mothers, But Something Doe...

He says he likes women who already have a child. His last two exes were both single mothers. Even the last one had three children,...

What Is Reactive Abuse…And Can It Be Prevented?

Understanding the dynamic that leads to this escalation is critical in effectively dealing with it. The post What Is Reactive Abus...

Opinion Openers as a Way to Hook Girls In

Old school pickup artists used opinion openers to meet women. Yet asking women for their opinions works even better as a HOOK tech...

How to Use Question-Based Openers to Chat Up Girls

A versatile way to start a conversation with a girl: just ask her a question. Your delivery can be sincere or cheeky… and you can ...

39% of Women Are Doing 80% of the Dating

The majority of first dates are entered into by a minority of women – 39% of women going on 80% of first dates, in fact. It’s an o...

Tactics Tuesdays: "Show Me a Pic"

A simple way to start building compliance with women, even those you’ve just met: find an excuse to have her show you some picture...

My Husband Wants Me to Borrow Money From My Ex for...

My daughter was six years old when I met Daniel. Because I had a daughter, men who came into my life didn’t take relationships wit...

My Wife Secretly Became The Weapon Fashioned Again...

A year after marriage, we got pregnant. My wife had just started her master’s program. I was very happy to know we were going to b...

She Ended a One-Year Relationship With a Single Te...

I was completely shocked when I saw her text on my phone. From my perspective, everything in the relationship seemed to be going w...

My Fiancée Wants Me to Connive With Her to Collect...

Last year, my fiancée and I welcomed a beautiful baby girl into our lives, and around that same time, my fiancée became glued to h...

My Husband Owes Me ¢20,000 and My Life Is Falling ...

In 2017, we got married as young people very much in love. My husband’s dream was to become a wealthy man who could provide for hi...

Pride, Partnership, and the Need for Emotional Ref...

When Gottman therapists assess relationship health, we are looking for three things above all else: the presence of trust, the pre...

Meeting Girls Is Like Working Out

If you know how to work out, you know how to meet girls. The process is identical: build the habit, learn the ropes, use disciplin...

Indirect Game: Why Situational Openers Get Her Att...

Why situational openers work for indirect game. Get her attention naturally, lower rejection risk, and keep the set alive. Hey guy...

Girls Chase Comic: Female vs. Male Communication S...

Men like to take turns in conversation and wait till the other guy’s finished what he’s saying before we jump in and share someth...

Secrets to Getting Girls: Interest Awakening & Int...

When women lose interest or reject men, it isn’t always the same. Sometimes it’s due to interest never awakening – others due to i...

The Reinvention of the American Barbershop

How New Technologies Are Helping Barbers Join the 21st Century

A REELy Fun Date

The easiest at-home date night you’ll actually want to do Stop Sending Reels. Start Saving Them.

BJ Date Night

WIVES– Want a date idea for this weekend that feels flirty, fun, and guaranteed to make your husband smile? Send him a surprise da...

I Became a Detective Because of One Late-Night Cal...

I was with my girlfriend when her phone rang. I took a quick glance to check who was calling at that ungodly hour. The name was sa...

My Husband’s Family Have Given Me the Green Light ...

I met him when I was young and in my prime. He chased me everywhere. Every place I turned, there he was, smiling, promising foreve...

A Letter to My Boss, the Girlfriend Thief

Hello Akosua, I just want you to know that your absence has settled heavily in my life. Some nights, it feels like my chest caves ...