True Life Story: Help I Am Being Blackmailed For An Entanglement With A Married Man

True Life Story: Help I Am Being Blackmailed For An Entanglement With A Married Man

Hi Lively Stones,

Two years ago, I was in a very dark place. I had just been dumped by my boyfriend of 3 years. I was so heartbroken and suicidal for many weeks. I was in shock, denial and finally anger …then I finally accepted my fate. Everyone knew about me and my ex where I lived so I had to move out of that area to start afresh in a new place. I moved into a new place but I was still depressed. I felt hollow and alone and I was afraid I was going to end up lonely for the rest of my life. At age 36, no boyfriend or husband.

So, I decided that if it was God’s will for me to be single, then I will have a child to at least share love with and keep me company. So, I made up my mind to have s3x with any stranger whatsoever that came my way. I also drank alot, anything to drown my sorrow. Maybe because I had been on contraception for years, I was surprised that I was not getting pregnant even though I was sexually very active. I became a slut…s3x was now my get away…I was always horny.

My girlfriends became worried…they organized an intervention for me and warned me about getting infected by sleeping with different strangers. I agreed with them to stop letting every tom, dick and harry into my pants, so I stopped and tried to date but only married men wanted to sleep with me. After two years , I decided to target men that I know…but most of them were not single…yes, I am sorry …I targeted married men but I never wanted anything from them….just their sperm. One man I chatted with, lives in the same estate as me. Married with 2 kids but he wanted to get freaky so he would sneak to my place or sometimes, we had s3x in my car in the dark.

I eventually got pregnant and cut him off. But this man refused to end things with me. He started stalking me and begging me. I told him I now have a boyfriend and I am done with him…he refused and said he would leave his wife for me if I wanted. I thought it was a joke but he sent me a voice note of him and his wife fighting as he told her he wanted a divorce. This broke me cos I now understood how men can be so heartless.

Just because of p*ssy…..you betray a woman that has given everything to you? Just the same way my ex dumped me for another woman, this married man wants to leave his wife cos of me? Yes, I know some girls will happily accept this but I believe in Karma. I cannot be the cause of another woman’s heartbreak. In trying to right this wrong, I contacted the wife and sent her messages her husband sent to me, told her that I am not interested in her husband and I want her husband to leave me alone.

My goal actually was to give the woman some support or evidence so she can fight the man and know I am not going to be the reason for their divorce. But this stupid woman in anger went ahead and shared my number on the estate group as the woman who is cheating with her husband and has the audacity to contact her to fight her. I was embarrassed. Her shameless husband was not…cos some people started saying that they know him as a community preek that has been sleeping with different women in the estate.

Then something bad happened….someone hacked into this man’s phone and got videos of him f*cking different women. And one of the videos had me and him in it. I could not believe this man taped us having s3x. And the blackmailer is demanding for money from him. This man told me and apologized for dragging me into this scandal. The hacker is planning to release the videos on the whatsapp group if the man does not pay.

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Like I said, the man is shameless and has said he is not going to pay. It is now up to me if I want to pay the blackmailer so he will leave my own video out …I hear some women are already making plans to pay so their own video will not be shared. Its a big mess cos I am even suspecting this man…what if he collaborating with the blackmailer? He denied it already sha. I went to the police to make a statement but they said they cannot trace the blackmailer because the blackmailer always used private number in calling.

I am desperate and need of advice. I did this with this man to get a child. Now that am pregnant, I dont want my child to be dragged into this….if my s3x tape is leaked, people might now know the father of my child. The blackmailer is asking for N100M…N20 for each woman…there are 5 of us in different videos with him. I dont have N20M to pay him…I offered what I can which is N1.5M but it was turned down.

Two days ago, he released one woman’s video and its the video of a very conservative woman…..the woman’s husband sent her away the next day. Men….scum…see how quickly he threw his wife out…no repercussion for the man who f*cked her…the cheater…his wife of course will not leave him….but he destroyed another marriage. I hear 2 other woman have paid the blackmailer…its me and one other woman and I am scared to my bones what will happen …the blackmailer has threatened to share the video to my employers.

I confided in a friend of mine and he advised me to play the victim…that I should say I am was not aware the man was married and that I broke it off when I found out he was married….please I need advice…should I go along with this advice because it seems its my only way out….I am really worried about this video getting to my employers, family and friends….and most especially…for my baby father to be revealed….please advise me on what to do…should I play the victim? Will that save my job…will that reduce the embarrassment?

Anonymous

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