True Life Story: Dating A Single Mother With A Spoilt Child-Please Advise Me

True Life Story: Dating A Single Mother With A Spoilt Child-Please Advise Me

Hello Lively Stones,

Please I need advise. I have been dating this young lady, we met on Facebook and we got talking. She is from a well to do home. Her parents are top government officials. This lady is very brilliant, soft spoken and her personality is so beautiful. I instantly felt drawn to her because she does not even behave like someone from a wealthy home. After chatting for a while, I told her I liked her and wanted us to take the relationship serious.

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That was when she told me that she has a son. That she got pregnant for one of her father’s associates who is a wealthy guy but they are not together. She told me her son is her everything and she wants a man who would accept him as his own when she gets married. At first, I was taken aback cos I am a young man and never really considered dating someone with a child. But this lady is just too amazing, I decided to accept her and her kid.

So we have been dating and things are looking good. Her family are all amazing but the only problem is her kid, her son with the wealthy guy. The boy is spoilt and does not like me. He is five years old. He feels that I want to replace his dad and he wants his dad and mom to be together. So every time am around, he becomes uncontrollable. He cries at everything I try to do. His mother is surprised because they all say he is a good kid and very friendly and respectful to everyone.

So its surprising that the little guy throws a tantrum around me. He does not speak to me except he wants to shout at me. When I try to talk to him calmly, he screams and says, do not talk to me, you are not my dad. I have tried to bribe him with gifts and toys but he refuses, always saying his dad got him better ones already. He also does not let me near his mom, he starts clinging around her when am around.

I have spoken to my girl, that her son needs boundaries and she says its me who needs to understand children and find a way to win her son. That the guy will come to love me eventually. But its almost a year we been together, yet, the son still does not like me. I love my girl so much. I can’t wait to marry her but I am having a very difficult time cracking this young dude. Now, this bad boy even lied that I hit him when I only just tried to play with him.

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I really want to propose to my girl but this is one major issue but people are telling me, all will be fine but its really bothering me. Maybe I am not cut out to be patient with another person’s kid….or is it really my inexperience with kids?

Please do you have any tips on how to win her son or is this a red flag that I should proceed no further with this relationship even though I love his mom so much?

Anonymous

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