Seven Years Later, She Still Wants A Baby With Me

The first time she said it, I laughed it off as a bad joke. Why would a woman like her ask me to give her a child? She didn’t look like the kind who couldn’t get a man. Besides, we were not dating. We were barely even friends, yet she wanted me to have intimacy with her. No, I am not that kind of man. You have to mean something to me before I get physical with you.

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I told her I couldn’t do it and she didn’t hide her disappointment. “I’m not asking you to marry me or fall in love with me. I just need one child from you. I’ll do my calculations and we’ll do it when I am ovulating.”

I still said no. She employed all sorts of emotional appeals to try and persuade me. None of it worked. It even got to a point where she was literally chasing me. I didn’t budge. I cut her off instead.

All of this happened seven years ago. She was in her late 30s while I was in my twenties. Just recently, she called me. A lot has changed in my life after all these years but it appears nothing has changed for her. She still wants a child and I am the one she wants it from.

She is 45 now while I am in my early thirties. “I am not going to demand anything from you when I get pregnant,” she said pleadingly, “I will take care of the child myself.”

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Unlike seven years ago, I am beginning to feel tempted this time around. It’s not for her but for my sake as well. I am wondering if this is my chance to have a child as well. I haven’t said yes to her because I can’t fathom cheating on my wife.

Yes, I got married. My wife and I constantly talked about having kids before we tied the knot. We thought it would be easy but so far she hasn’t conceived. She has some health issues that have affected her fertility.

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We are trusting God and trying in as many ways as possible to get pregnant but we are still childless. It feels almost cosmic that this woman from my past called me at this challenging time to revisit her desire to have a baby with me. Is this a path I should go down?

—Danny

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