I WANT TO SHARE MY STORY CONCERNING PREMARITAL SEX

"I want to share my story concerning premarital sex, I hope people will learn from my mistake

It all started in 2009/2010. Immediately I finished writing my WAEC exams, I met my husband. But before I met him, I have decided on no sex before marriage. My reason being that since I am the first daughter, I wouldn't want to have a child out of wedlock. 

I also promised God that if I should get pregnant mistakenly, I wouldn't abort. But if I make an attempt to abort it, he should take my life on the spot. 

After meeting my husband, then boyfriend, I told him about the no sex before marriage policy. Initially, he accepted it. But after some time, he started demanding for sex.

By then I had started loving him and I was afraid to lose him. I had to give in to his demands. 

Months later, I became pregnant. When I told him about it, he asked me not to tell anyone. Then he took me somewhere abort it. I begged, cried and even mentioned my promise to God, but he said that nothing will happen if we ask God for forgiveness afterwards. That's how I ended up breaking my promise to God, but his mercy saved and kept me. 

I continued dating him and took in again. This time, he came with a drug to terminate it. I ran as fast as my legs could carry me. 

We later got married and did both the traditional and white wedding. 

Now, the child he wanted us to terminate, he loves her so much. I have given birth to two other boys due to God's mercy. However, since then, there is this strange sickness that has refused to go. I pray that God will heal me too from this sickness. "

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