UNDERSTANDING THE DYNAMICS OF DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP….

Whether we like it or not, distance relationship is a life mainstay because of the many uncontrollable and unforeseen factors of life. While some are succeeding at it, others are not. Distance relationship is as same as the short distance relationship except that the two lovers don’t see often in person.

1. YOU WON’T SEE OFTEN
One characteristics of a distance relationship is the “non physical presence” factor. This can span from a week to a year or even years. Therefore don’t expect to see them often. However, make yourselves available as often as the opportunity presents itself.

2. GREAT UNDERSTANDING IS REQUIRED
Sometimes some issues may arise. For instance a scheduled visit or date may be rescheduled or even cancelled. And this could hit you hard like a sledge hammer. But you must understand with the other partner.

3. GREATER PATIENCE IS REQUIRED
Long distance relationship requires a great deal of patience from both lovers. And those who lack it shouldn’t enter it in the first place.

Since you don’t see often, whenever you’re chatting, discuss more your future marital plans because that will reiterate your sincerity of purpose and commitment to them.

Whenever you’re chatting, ask or find out about their wellbeing, health, career/job, business, etc. Should there be a challenge somewhere, wish them well, encourage them and pray with/for them.