True Life Story: Why I Borrowed Money From A Married Man Who Wants To Sleep With Me

True Life Story: Why I Borrowed Money From A Married Man Who Wants To Sleep With Me Good evening Lively Stones, I am in a very deep fix and I need some advice. My name is Mercy (not real name) I am 28 years old. I met my baby daddy three years ago, he was […]

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True Life Story: Why I Borrowed Money From A Married Man Who Wants To Sleep With Me

Good evening Lively Stones,

I am in a very deep fix and I need some advice. My name is Mercy (not real name) I am 28 years old. I met my baby daddy three years ago, he was my Supervisor at a five star restaurant. I got attracted to him cos I thought he was very intelligent and handsome. Plus, he used to talk about Christian stuff alot at work. He even used to share Christian books at work. I wanted a man who loved God. So, when he started paying me attention, I was very happy.

We were together for about two months before we had s3x. At first,he seemed like he regretted having s3x with me cos he is a serious Christian but after a while, it became, normal…he said he wanted to marry me. This guy was just a smooth criminal….I discovered all that church thing was just a front…we were very s3xually active….he demanded s3x every day from me and me too…My head got carried away. I thought it was love. I got pregnant and everything changed. He wanted me to abort it but I went to report to his pastor and they forced him to keep the pregnancy. They kicked against abortion cos it was a sin but they could not force him to marry me. From that time, he started treating me bad that I regretted keeping the pregnancy.

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I discovered he was seeing other girls too. I had to quit my jib during the pregnant and Smith (my baby daddy) could barely provide for me. He wanted me to suffer to deciding to keep the pregnancy. Things have been so tough. Then Smith lost his job and things became much harder. Then he became nicer to me again. We started living as a couple even though not married. A a couple of months ago, Smith got a job as a driver. The job would take him in and out of Lagos every day.

Myself, I have been looking for a job but Smith said I should not work cos our baby is still young. But staying at home without money is too hard. So he said he will give me some after he can save for a while. So, I can start a business. But last month, a woman introduced me to a business that will make me quick money to sell some things this Christmas. I needed like 100k to start the business. Smith said he did not have money. I was determined not to loose the opportunity so I had to go to my former company and begged the cooperative Manager to loan me the money.

It is because the man is from the same village as me and he has been toasting me since I was in the company years ago. He gave me the loan and said I must return it before month end so no one will know. He also said if I agree to be his side chick cos hes married, but he is very attractive man too….he will forget the 100k with me. I had no choice but to agree…but I promised to return the money, not to be his side chick. He insisted and I said ok. I was desperate.

And then, I dont know what happened but on the day I was going to buy the items to sell, the 100k was stolen from me….I have no idea how it happened but I lost 100k and I almost died. The bus I entered, I think there we pick pockets cos I did not even notice when the money was taken from me. The bad thing was I did not even tell Smith that I took a loan from our former cooperative. If Smith knows I took money from a man that has been toasting me since over four years, he will be mad at me.

Now, I am in very deep looking for how to pay cos the man has to pay back the cooperative with his Salary so they dont find out. But he said I have to sleep with him if I don’t want him to get the police involved. At least, that way, I can say I paid him back in kind. He has been pressuring me but I told him I cant because I am with my baby daddy. He then told me to stop being foolish, that my baby daddy is not being faithful to me, that he cannot even assist me financially and yet I want to remain faithful to him. He also said, that he knows Smith will not marry me because Smith has several girlfriends, some still in the company and they are still together. That girls are still fighting over him.