QUALITIES OF A GREAT WOMAN

1. SHE IS INTELLIGENT 

 She opens her lips and oozes wisdom. One can have a hard and serious talk with her.

2. SHE IS EMOTIONALLY STABLE 

Yes, she may be hurt, feeling low and going through much, but she's a master of her feelings. She remains calm and collected 

3. SHE MULTIPLIES

She'll turn one hundred into a thousand, a thousand into a million. She doesn't sit pretty and lazy waiting to be done for.

4. SHE LOVES BEING LOVED

Yes, she is not waiting to be done for things, but when you love on her and do good to her, she is receptive and appreciative. In as much as she loves to give, she welcomes being served and given too

5. SHE LOVES THROUGH FOOD 

She will make attempts to cook the best meals and in the process, feed your soul too

6. SHE'S FUN

Though she's intelligent, she can also act silly, crack jokes, tease, laugh; she is great company

7. SHE KNOWS HOW TO CALL FOR HELP

When she's stuck or in trouble, she knows how to ask for help. She doesn't suffer alone

8. SHE'S A REFLECTION OF GOD 

You see her and see God, she's becoming more and more like God: loving, forgiving, graceful, strong valued

9. SHE IS CONFIDENT

Whether she is an introvert or outgoing, she has a high self esteem. You can't bring her down. She has admirable qualities

10. SHE FEEDS HER MIND, BODY AND SPIRIT

You will catch her often reading a stimulating book or novel, praying, eating the right foods and working out

11. SHE KEEPS RELATIONSHIPS

She will have strong people surrounding her, whether a best friend, a clique of girlfriends or a bunch of close friends. She values relationships with friends and family not just the one with her man

12. SHE UNDERSTANDS HER BODY

She is self aware. She knows what type of clothes, fashion and hair compliments her body shape, size and complexion. She looks phyically good

13. SHE IS SEXUALLY AND FAITHFULLY ALIVE

She is not afraid to make sexual advances on her spouse, she knows how to make him touch her and desire her. She is sexually exciting. She is faithful to him and respects sex

14. SHE NURTURES

She takes care and covers children; whether her own or other people's.

15. SHE IS A TEACHER AND A STUDENT

She is one to advice and correct her man with love but also willing to learn and be corrected

16. SHE GIVES GREAT HUGS

Her touch is reassuring and comforting. She leaves you feeling loved and cared for 

17. SHE IS NOT INDEPENDENT

Though she is successful, professional, has her own money and is educated; she admits she needs her man. Her need to love 6 be loved makes them DEPENDENT on each other. Being a modern woman doesn't mean she ages alone in her big mansion. She needs to love and be loved

18. SHE DOES NOT DO DRAMA

She values her peace and makes no apologies when she walks away from nonsensical matters.

19. SHE BLESSES AND ADDS VALUE

Everyone who encounters her is positively impacted. She oozes wisdom, uplifts you and speaks to King or Queen in you 

20. SHE'S LOYAL AND DEPENDABLE 

She will stand by you and support you, even when others give up on you. You can be sure where ahe stands. She does not waiver

© Dayan Masinde and Akello Oliech