My Ex Wants to Go on Air to “Expose” Me Because He Thinks I Cursed Him

My ex-boyfriend says he wants to take me to Aunty Naa because he believes I was bitter about our breakup. According to him, I didn’t handle the end of our relationship “maturely.” But let me tell you what really happened.

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When we were dating, I was good to him. I loved him so much; I showered him with everything I had. All that was mine automatically became his too. I had a solid job that paid well, a beautiful apartment, and a car I barely drove because the roads in Ghana terrified me. He drove that car like it was his own, practically lived in my apartment, and contributed next to nothing financially. The only support I ever got from him came in the form of birthday gifts and the occasional Christmas present. That was it.

But love is like that sometimes. You give, you pour, you invest, and you hope it means something.

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He cheated on me with a coworker, and when I found out, he gave her my number to call me. She said, “It’s nothing; we’re just friends. Nothing is going on between us.” That call was pure gaslighting. I don’t know if she thought I was a fool or just desperate enough to believe her. But I wasn’t. I left that relationship after that incident. I didn’t curse him out, I didn’t cry, and I didn’t even say much. The next year, I relocated to the United States to start over and embrace the new opportunities life had to offer.

Then one day, out of nowhere, I received a lengthy message from this man. He narrated his entire ordeal since I left. According to him, life has been unbearable. He lost his job, he’s drowning in debt, and he confessed that he stole money from his workplace. He said he’s currently hiding in his village. He also said his family went to consult their gods, and they claimed I had taken him somewhere spiritually because I was heartbroken. They believe that unless I return to Ghana and break him out of whatever bottle they think he’s trapped in, his life will never improve.

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He went further to say that I wasn’t mature about the breakup, and since I want to destroy his life, he will destroy mine too. He threatened to go on a smear campaign against me if I don’t come down and buy the items the shrine is requesting to break the curse on his head. I laughed. I haven’t taken this man anywhere. In fact, I didn’t even cry or say anything out of pain when we broke up, so this whole situation is bizarre. I don’t even understand why he thinks I’m responsible and not the other women he cheated with.

I’m not going to Ghana for any of that nonsense, but I am worried. He says he will take me to Aunty Naa. But I’m a wife now, a mother, and a very private person. I haven’t told my mum yet because she is a volcano waiting to erupt, and if I involve her, she will finish this man without blinking. This ex of mine is truly awful, and I believe he will do exactly what he has threatened. I don’t doubt for a second that he will go to any media station just to get my attention.

I truly need advice. I want to protect my peace, my privacy, and my family. I want to handle this without drama, but I also want to be safe.

—Abigail

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