MEN, DO THIS FIRST BEFORE BRINGING YOUR WOMAN TO MEET YOUR FAMILY

1. First, make sure you have sold her to your family. By this I mean you have been speaking well and highly of her to your people.  

Many men are guilty of this. You have to sell her to your family. Speak well of her, blow her trumpet before your people, let them know how much you value and treasure her. This will create a good impression already, and their expectations of meeting her will be high. 

Don't just bring a woman home to meet your people without first watering the ground for her. By the way, the way you talk about her to your people is the way they will address her. Many men talk down on their partners so much, infront of his family, his parents know she doesn't have a job or anything doing and their son has been the one taking care of her, that's very bad uncle. Such a family already see her as a competition, as someone coming to divert the focus and attention of their son from them, all because the said son talks too much and doesn't know how to be a man. 

Brother, If you don't give her value and respect kindly expect the same from your family. Its garbage IN garbage OUT. 

2. Be the glue that brings her closer to your family before her official visit. Call your mom in her presence and let her say hello on the phone. Little things like "Mom, Chioma is here, she wants to say hello", it will go a long way.

 You don't package a woman in an envelope and bring her to meet your parents without any prior connection, you are making the transition difficult for her already. Buy a gift for your parents and tell them it's a gift from you and Chioma. Send them money and let them know its a contribution from both of you. Let your family fall in love with her before she comes over.

3. Give her some good orientation before she comes over; how to dress, how to compose herself, the right way to greet your parents, etc. Tell her the names of the folks she will meet at home so she doesn't have to guess. And when she comes over don't leave her alone with your family and wander away, stay around to provide moral support, especially if you know your parents to be roasters.

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