“I Can Never Call A Woman, The Love Of My Life” — Didi-Omah Hit Hard On Love

I can never call a woman, the love of my life, because God is the creator of my life and he deserves my first love. Check out in Revelation of the Bible, I think from chapter two. I can not call a woman my strength, I can never call a woman or a man, my joy. The Lord is my strength and my joy. Human change but Adonay doesn't change. Man is unfaithful but Jesus Christ remains faithful. Woman can deny you but God will never forsake you. I cannot call anyone, my heart, my breathe — tufiakwa!!!

Executive, I cannot rely on human be it a woman or a man because if I do, I am heading to frustration and disappointment. I can call my woman, my wife — my crown because I am a king and without her, my crown, my kingship is not complete. I may call my wife, my excellence because she is royal, heavy with dignity. I call my woman, my beloved — because in her I found love that birth my generation to the world.

I can call the mother of my children, 

my dove — to calm her, makes her feel tenderly loved. Executive, I can call the sister of my body, my divine — to elevates her spiritually, because she is God-sent to me. I can call my wife, my unique — to secures her heart, makes her feel irreplaceable. Because no lady by God's grace can take her place in my heart. I can call my wife, my helper — because she is my assistant in home building and assisting me on the other side. 

I can call my woman, my flesh — because she is the flesh of my flesh, she is the bone of my bone. Song of Solomon revealed to us, the best names to give to our lover that will not counter the attributes of God. God forbid for me to attribute names I should render to God to a woman. God forbid I should give the thanks and gifts, I should give to God to any man. You are falling in love, why won't your heart breaks when the person just shift small from you. What a foolishness?

From Warren Buffett, Others, and from the Bible — what I have discovered is loving and not falling in love. For God so loved the world.... Executive, not God falling in love with the world. That you may love one another as I have loved you, that was what Jesus Christ said. Husband love your wife as yourself. Let brotherly love continue.... Should I continue. So tell me, where is falling in love, coming from.

Small silence from your alleged lover, you start feeling lonely, cheated and moody. Executive, you are an executive for Christ's sake. Don't let the confusion of the world control you. There is love, love is real, love is divine. So there is love. Most people are in lust, that is why they are lost, and you can never find them. You can never be lost in love. Never will you be loved and be lost. Only when you are in lust in disguise as love, that you will be lost. When you love, you grow and remain your original self. 

Executive, most people have not studied any book on relationships and marriages. They just jumped into relationship from the words of their friends or trends on social media. “Ehh! Chinaza, e get one lady wey dey always look at me”. Oya listen to Augustine's response, “she likes you....”, the rest is a story. And boom! They are in a relationship that is not leading to anywhere. I keep saying this, and thanks to God that many wise preachers and teachers do the same. Executive, because you are pregnant for Didi-Omah does not make you his legal and traditional wife. 

Let me draw near small, most people view of love is from Nigerian movies — when a world of only five people, how will they not love quickly. What a funny script right. Most people view for love are from Korean movies, Philippines movies, etc. What I am saying is that romantic movies are the source of view for many people about love. Sorry for them!

Let me put it well for proper understanding. Because you as a lady, you are pregnant for a man, that does not automatically turns you to his wife. So stop deceiving yourself. And you as a man because she gave birth to your child, does not automatically turns her to your legal and traditional wife. Do the needful. I am pregnant for him, is not the gateway to his name. The truth is that, do not marry the wrong person because you are the mother or father of their child. Most young people out of ignorance and lack of fatherly love entered into this trap.

Researches have shown that out of the total number of misbehaving and irresponsible ladies, even those showing nonsense on social media, posting videos with sex related text. 90% are those without fatherly love and guidance. They claimed mother is all, but yet with their mother, only few make up the women that command in the society. Lack of fatherly love, make a girl child to desperately seek a boy's arm for love. Quote me anywhere, thanks to Jesus Christ, I am a global citizen and a man of authority. So you are free to take me to even a court, by God's grace, my lawyers will represent me.

Stop playing around, take responsibility for your life. Executive, stop attributing names and titles that should be to Adonay to a woman or to that man. You will regret it, when your so-called lover starts showing you the dark side. Praise your partner or lover with earthy attributes and with wisdom, not with what should be rendered to God. Thanks to Jesus Christ. Blessed Are You O' Adonay.

© Didi-Omah Augustine Chinazaekpere 

(Businessman, Industrialist, Investor)