BEFORE YOU COMPLAIN ABOUT YOUR WIVES INABILITY TO SUBMIT TO YOU; ASK YOURSELF THESE QUESTIONS...

Dear husband,

Before you complain about your wives inability to submit to you.

Ask yourself "How well am I leading her?"

Are you leading her spiritually? Do you advocate for and lead in daily prayers, Do you wash her with the word of God? How often do you lay hands on her and the kids and pray for them?How connected are you to God? Are you your family's priest and prophet? Do you keep the fire burning in your family altar, Do you live a life pleasing to God and worthy of emulation?

Are you leading her financially? Things may be difficult but what efforts are you making to provide for your family? Do you allow her to slave and labour as opposed to God's design? Do you make sound financial decisions or you always put the family in debt? How well do you handle finances in the home?

Are you leading her sexually? Is your wife a satisfied lover? When last did she scream and moan and get to heaven in bed? Is the burden of spicing up your sex life resting on her shoulders alone? Are you able to leave her thinking of how good she has it while she works at the office?

Are you leading her physically? Do you constantly criticize her about her weight while you parade your pot belly in those stinking boxers of yours? How often do you work out and encourage her to come along? MR, do you always step out looking dapper? Do you keep your things intact or she has to run around picking after you as she does for the kids? Are your arms always wrapped around her in protection? Can she count on you to defend her before the world?

Are you leading her intellectually? She has to follow you but what kind of person is she following? Have you taken any leadership courses? Do you know the principles of leadership? How often do you read to enhance your knowledge on diversified matters? Is she able to count on you to answer the children's difficult questions? How well do you lead yourself? There has to be a good head on your shoulder for her to follow, don't force her into reducing her level of reasoning, get ahead of her, students have no problems following a good lecturer.

MR, do you encourage your wife to reach for the stars or do you drag her down with your negativity and low mentality. Do you have more than just your last name to offer to her? How well has she grown since she met You? Is your wife grateful to have you or do you leave her always thinking "WHY THE HELL DID I GET MARRIED ?"

 If asked whether she would choose you in her next life, what would her reply be behind your back?

A friend once said about her husband "He makes marriage so easy for me?"

 Is marriage drudgery for your significant other?

 Your wife should be able to scream Hallelujah say the thought of you.

Dear husband, leadership is not just your right, it is also a responsibility, When you get it right, she has no option than to follow,she'll run along like a willing puppy into the hands of her master and best friend.