Why I Stopped lifting People Up – Gospel singer Tope Alabi shares experience

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Gospel singer Tope Alabi has revealed why she no longer takes it upon herself to help elevate other artistes, recounting past experiences that discouraged her.

During a ministration, she explained that she once relocated a talented female singer, along with her husband and children, to Lagos to support her career.

However, problems arose, particularly with the woman’s husband, who resisted certain arrangements. Alabi said she had a similar experience with another lady, leading to misunderstandings and opposition from the beneficiaries, which made her stop helping in such ways.

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Alabi claims she handled payments for the lady by charging her fees together with her own to ensure compensation.
The husband reportedly refused to play musical instruments behind a woman due to family traditions.

Social media reactions are divided, with some calling the beneficiaries ungrateful and others questioning Alabi’s approach.
Critics argue that helping should not come with conditions that feel like ownership.
Alabi’s story has sparked debate about mentorship, boundaries, and gratitude in the gospel music industry.