WHEN A WOMAN LOVES HER FAMILY  

1. She loves her husband and her children dearly. She puts them first

2. She does not use her tongue to destroy her own home. She speaks life.

3. She creates an atmosphere of peace for everyone

4. She doesn't allow rumours and gossip to destroy her marriage

5. She doesn't provoke her husband to anger. 

6. She corrects her husband and children with love.

7. She chooses the right friends, who build her, not mislead her

8. She looks for opportunities of growth for her children

9. She is emotionally intelligent 

10. She opens her mouth with godly wisdom, her words are seasoned

11. She does not allow her time to be wasted on mindless arguments and drama

12. She doesn't fight her in laws. She honours the parents who gifted her with her husband

13. She pursues her individual purpose. There is more to her life than marriage 

14. She is a good role model to her children. She makes time and mentors them

15. She works hard to provide for her family just as her husband. They are ONE team

16. She regularly does a self audit and stretches herself to be a better woman 

17. She does not use sex as a weapon

18. She is there for her husband irrespective of finances 

19. She does not entertain other men, online or offline

20. She does not nag but seeks solutions to problems

21. She keeps herself sexy for herself and her husband 

22. She has a healthy self esteem. She is not insecure

23. She inspires, motivates and encourages

24. She is a joy to be around, her warmth radiates

© Akello Oliech and Dayan Masinde