WHEN A RELATIONSHIP SHOULD END

1) THEY HAVE REFUSED TO CHANGE

I've always advised, one's first reaction shouldn't be walking out of a Relationship,

Everybody deserves a second chance,

Only a few deserve a third..

BUT once it becomes clear they aren't willing to change after series of appeals, even when they know such things cause you heartache, and when the such things are well within their power to change,  

You should realize that it might be time to return to your tent.

2) YOU ARE NOT HAPPY

The Son of God died to purchase you Joy and Peace of Mind. 

Any Man/Woman who wants to take away those away from you should die, and resurrect after three days first before they have the right to do so.

Any Relationship that is doing like you are dating an onions,

One week, one trouble,

Relationship that has only downs. No Ups. Is the relationship a drill?

PLEASE MOVE. They didn't plant you there, you are not a tree. 

3) YOUR CHRISTIAN FAITH IS BEING CHALLENGED

When they don't have any desire for the things of God even in the least..

When they are constantly on your neck to do things against God's word. 

Don't allow any one BESIEGE you, you either walk out or before long you'd find yourself bowing to their pressure and giving in to their demands. 

 4) THEY ARE VIOLENT.

Even in Marriage, we advise SEPARATION once violence and threat to life is involved, not to now talk of Relationship.

If he or she is hitting you, abusing you physically, emotionally or otherwise. Locate the nearest exit point out of that Relationship.

5). THEY DON'T LOVE YOU..

A Relationship is not a sole Proprietorship business.

Don't think your love will cover for the both of you. It will shock you.

One day they'll leave you for the one they love. 

When it becomes obvious it's your money she loves, not you

When it becomes obvious it's your body he loves, not you,

When you realize it's sex he came for,

RUN

You owe it to your future self and your unborn kids.

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A broken Courtship will always be better than a broken Marriage.

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I leave you with this famous words from Bishop David Oyedepo

"it's better to be Single praying to be Married than Married and praying to be single. 

Via musa