True Life Story: Man Plans To Divorce Wife Because Of Wayward Sister In-law

True Life Story: Man Plans To Divorce Wife Because Of Wayward Sister In-law

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A very good friend of mine is seeking advise from me. I have tried to advise based on my capacity but I thought its better to bring it to this platform for better advise. This my friend is doing ok. At least, two years ago, he bought a house in Lekki. He has been married also for over 10 years and him and his wife are doing well until about four months ago, when the wife’s younger sister who is engaged got posted to Lagos for her youth service.

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Naturally, the girl came to stay with them for her service year but my friend was very shocked to notice that the girl does not behave like a well brought up girl. Not too long after the girl moved in, my friend noticed that his sister in-law was always going to the neighbor’s duplex. This neighbor has been rumored to be a yahoo boy and he is notorious for living a very luxurious lifestyle, always partying and bringing different girls and boys to his house.

At first, my friend warned his sister in-law to stop fraternizing with this neighbor but wife was the one who kept saying they should allow her cos she wants her sister to make friends and connections in Lagos so she can get a job. My friend told his wife that the neighbor that is a yahoo boy cannot be the person to help his sister in-law with a job cos he does not do any legal work. My friend’s wife said the rumors about this guy being yahoo is not true, that the guy is an IT expert who works from home for an international company.

Another thing that is upsetting my friend is that, his sister in-law is supposed to be engaged but she is seriously flirting with this neighbor. My friend’s wife and sister are making light of the matter, saying she is not flirting but just being friendly. My friend has had a running battle with his wife and sister in-law about this neighbor but they refused to listen to him or care about his opinion.

Several weeks ago, the sister in-law was rushed to the hospital. The wife and sister tried to hide what was wrong but eventually, my friend found out that the sister in-law got pregnant for the neighbor and had an abortion which resulted in a complication that almost cost her her life. My friend was so upset that he asked the sister inlaw to leave his house after the ordeal but the wife begged and begged…saying the girl has learnt her lesson. Grudgingly, my friend forgave the girl only for two weeks latter, law enforcement raided the neighbor’s place and arrested the guy and picked up several people.

Guess who was among those picked: this same girl. Now, they are asking for money to bail the girl and my friend has refused to bring any money. Infact, he said he does not want his wife to go near the station, that if she does, she would leave his house. The wife is begging family and friends to beg the husband but the husband says he warned his wife and sister in-law when pregnancy occurred…only for two weeks later, the girl went back again to this same man.

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My friend is disappointed in the wife and for disobeying him and allowing her sister to bring shame and disrespect to their family, my friend says he is considering even divorcing his own wife. That he could not believe his wife tried to hide her sister’s pregnancy and abortion…and yet, the wife did nothing when the sister went back to the same man. Now, if you are my friend…what will you do?

Do you think his reasons for wanting to divorce his wife is valid? Do you think he should not allow his wife go bail her sister? Do you think my friend is right for refusing to bring the money for bail? The whole family is thrown into confusion. Everyone is begging my friend to forgive and bail the girl first and take action later but he has refused. The girl’s family cant make the bail conditions by themselves. Please share your advise.

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