True Life Story: Is My Husband Trying To Set Up His Twin Brother Or Myself?

True Life Story: Is My Husband Trying To Set Up His Twin Brother Or Myself?

Good day Lively Stones,

I have an issue I want you to help me check. I am a peaceful woman, I don’t trouble but my husband has been a source of pain that so many times, I have contemplated leaving this marriage of almost 8 years. When we were dating, he was cool and sweet but after marriage, he changed and became someone else. He became a womanizer and a liar. At first, he blamed me for his indiscretions because he said I was not satisfying his s3xual needs.

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During the early stage of our marriage, I was having a difficult time balancing child bearing and my career….I almost quite my career when I found out my husband was sleeping with every house maid that I employed. I then became so upset that I moved out of the house on two occasions. He came and begged and promised to be a better man. I stayed one time, almost 5 months away…I thought he had changed and I moved back in.

Since that time, trust has not been easy for me….I have not caught him with anyone but I can’t help but suspect his every move. Then, one of our family friend asked us to help the niece get an NYSC placement in Lagos. My husband got her a place in his office and I found out that he was picking and dropping her off everyday from her bustop. This became an issue when I even saw the physic of this girl, she looked like all those BBL girls. Very attractive.

I told my husband to stop picking or dropping her but he accused me of suspecting an innocent girl. He even told me that the girl is a virgin. I was like, how did you know…he said because some guys in his office tried to toast the girl but she refused. I suspected he too tried and maybe the girl refused. This became an issue of argument for me and hubby but I tried to maintain my cool until this girl finished her service and left.

Then I stumbled on my husband’s chat with this girl a few months later. They actually flirted with each other cos she wrote that she had a crush on him but because he is married and her father is a pastor, she could not do anything with him. Then my husband was like, saying any man who marries her is truly blessed. She also said she wish to find a husband like my husband one day. When I saw that chat, I was mad but I calmed down cos the conclusion of the chat showed that nothing happened between them.

And then, to my surprise, my husband’s twin brother who broke up with his girlfriend of over two years, told me that my husband introduced someone to him and he likes her alot and he wants to marry her. This brother of my husband is a jaiye jaiye…never serious with one girl…his fiance suffered too in his hands. Only for him to break up less than three months, he has found someone else and he is thinking of marriage? Guess who this person is, that same girl…that has a crush on my husband, that former NYSC girl….my husband introduced her to his twin brother and his brother is so head over heels in love with her…he is saying so many good things about her…that she is a well brought up girl and she is the best thing that happened to him.

Lively Stones, my worry is plenty: out of all the girls, why is it the one that has a crush on my husband that my husband introduced to his twin brother? Is it his plan to bring her close, so he can be close to her? Am I crazy for thinking like that? Another thing is: should his twin brother be marrying someone that has a crush on his own brother? Should he not be aware? Should I tell him or should I confront my husband? If I do, my husband will know I saw their chat…..but I am worried all the same.

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Maybe its my trust issues again but genuinely, I am worried about this girl marrying my husband’s twin….I feel its a set up…is my husband trying to set up his own brother? Or trying to set me up so he can keep this girl close to him without anyone suspecting anything between them? should I say something or keep quiet? This girl may be gunning for my man and is using the twin as a cover up…or am I just being paranoid? If you were in my shoes, what would you do please? Please advise me, for the sake of my sanity. I don’t know what to think anymore.

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