True Life Story: How Anger Pushed Me To Carry Out A Dirty Revenge

True Life Story: How Anger Pushed Me To Carry Out A Dirty Revenge

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Anger is bad. Very bad. Revenge is dirty. I don’t know how I can ever correct this huge mistake I made out of anger towards my husband simply because I wanted to carry out a dirty revenge on him? My husband and I met over a year ago and dated for almost 7 months before we got married. The engagement was chaotic. We both have short tempers and usually get into heated arguments with each other. We broke up twice in seven months but he kept begging me to come back and promised to get better.

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For me, I think I know my faults but I was also scared of loosing him and being alone. I had been engaged before, for three years and it ended up not working out. I was single for so long so being in this relationship, I was afraid. However, we went to counselling…my fiance did…he was advised to break up with me which he tried to but somehow, we decided to get married, instead of breaking up.

Our families threw a very big wedding in Akure. It was the talk of the town. But soon after wedding, our arguments turned in physical fights. We both cant stand each other. My husband says I a wild dog who is not meant to be married but to anyone. Maybe he is right…cos I was not ready to backdown or compromise. And no one advised me, after we quarrel, I would refuse to have s3x with him for days and that would drive him more angry.

Then he decided to leave me alone and stop begging for s3x. He was wrongly advised by someone and so my husband intentionally got close to someone, because he wanted to make me jealous. But my hot head, not only made me jealous, I got so upset that I wanted revenge on my husband. Just two months after marriage o, that is when all these drama started happening.

I went to this gym and registered. I flirted with guys there and slept with two guys I met from the gym. A guy there suggested a threesome if I wanted to have fun…I don’t know what I was thinking….I was just crazy vengeful….there was alot of alcohol the day it happened….I thought I was punishing my husband…..Unfortunately for me, someone made a s3x tape of me and these guys…and has sent it to me, threatening to release the tape soon. The guys said they didn’t do it but I am suspecting them seriously…maybe this is what they do with lonely s3x starved married woman. They are asking for N20M. I am freaking out right now.

I am panicking cos I don’t want any of my family or my husband to find out. I have been crying since. My husband noticed and has been asking me what the issue is, I could not tell him so he started apologizing and confessed that he is not cheating on me but just trying to make me feel jealous. He then called the woman he was pretending with and she also confirmed they were just pretending.

This revelation made me cry more cos I have just realized that I am a fool for going to such extremes just to punish my husband when I suspected him of cheating. I had to confess to my husband what happened. He was too shocked that I did not just cheat in him with one guy but two guys at the same time….he took his things and left him. Since almost 3 weeks, I have not heard from him.

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Meanwhile, I still get threatening messages to send the N20M or they release the video. This morning, they have released the video on X (twitter) but they blocked my face. They said if I dont send the money by end of tomorrow, they will release the full video with my full face. Please ma, I need advise. I am so afraid of my family finding out…..this will k#ll be unforgiveable. Also, how do I ever find a way to make my husband forgive me? Or do you think my two months old marriage is over?

My fear now is, I hope I have not pushed him to go back to that woman he was pretending with? What if they now become real…oh God…what have I done? Why ..why…am I cursed….why am I so short tempered?

Please advise me.

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