True Life Story: Fear Women-My Wife Who Refused To Forgive My Mother Now Wants My Forgiveness

True Life Story: Fear Women-My Wife Who Refused To Forgive My Mother Now Wants My Forgiveness

Dear Lively Stones,

My wife and my mother are estranged. Fear women! A very tragic incident occurred with our first child that led to their strained relationship. My mother is actually a local mid wife and when my wife was ready to give birth to our first child, she came to live with us to help. Of course my wife would not agree to a lot of my mom’s suggestions because she is just a local mid wife…my wife insisted and gave birth to our baby in the hospital.

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However, after the baby was discharged, we went home but the baby kept crying for almost two days after we got home. My wife wanted to go back to the hospital with the baby but my mom was administering local herbs. To be forthright, my mom is truly experienced…she has helped countless people give  birth locally. I grew up seeing my mom even help people give birth on the dirty roadside….she has never lost any child she helped birth.

In my own case, I did not see why my wife was just rigid and not listening to any advice from my mom. We had an argument about this until my wife yielded. Eventually, the herbs were not helping the baby. The baby died a day to its naming ceremony. My wife was inconsolable. She cursed my mom and accused her of k#lling her baby. Personally, I do not blame my mom but maybe her local methods were not just ok for children of this generation.

My mom left my house and since that time, she and my wife have never spoken to each other. My wife has never tried to reconcile with my mom and my mom refused to make peace. These two women are very important in my life. We have had two children after that first one died yet these women do not see eye to eye still. I understand my wife is hurt but I have spoken to her several times to forgive my mom and accept her like her own mom who is also capable of making mistakes.

A few weeks ago, my wife started acting weird at home. She started switching off her phone or putting it on flight mode all the time. I noticed and became worried. I asked her why she was doing that and she said nothing. She explained that she does not want disturbance. I found that strange but said nothing. One night, I believe around almost 2am…I woke up to use the toilet and discovered my wife is not in our bed…I checked the toilet but she was not there.

I looked for her until I met her in the living room with the light turned off and she was talking in very low tones but she sounded very agitated…she was telling the other person on the line to do your worst. I put on the light…which startled my wife…she quickly ended the call she was making…I asked who she was talking to…she said no one…later she said…just her friend who is having marital problems. Your friend? At 2am at night? What kind of marital problems?

When she could not answer, I had to struggle the phone with her….she kept fighting me but I had her phone…and when I checked…there was a number she was calling…I dialed the number back to hear a man’s voice…I kept asking who is this and the voice was asking who am I…then the voice said…my name is Tunji (not real name)…your wife k#lled my child and I am going to take action. The call ended.

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Then I looked at my wife and said…what is the meaning of all these? Which baby did you k#ll? Who is the man…who is going to sue us? My wife tried to ignore my questions but am not a man you can pool a wool over their heads…Insisted and held my wife so tight until she said…she has to confess…that our first child was not really mine…

Help me…advise me…what would you do if you are in my position?

…..TO BE CONTINUED

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