TREATING YOUR SPOUSE WELL IS ACTUALLY IN YOUR BEST INTEREST

1. Husbands, when you make your spouse feel special, loved and secure. You will have peace in your home; there will be no nagging or complaints

2. Wives, when you treat your husband with respect, care and make time spent with you at home exciting; he will be coming home early and enjoy being at home

3. If you treat your spouse well outside of sex, when it comes to making love, your spouse will make love to you good. Whatever you desire sexually you will get. A loved up heart operates a good sexual body

4. When you are responsible with the secrets your spouse tells you and don't use them against him/her; your spouse will open up to you more. You definitely want to be in the know

5. Husbands, when you help out your wife with the house chores, she will be less exhausted, that means she'll be good company and in a good mood with you reaping the benefits.

6. If you play along with your spouse and flirt when your spouse is horny; when you will be horny, your spouse will be more than willing to play along with you

7. If you constantly make time to be with your spouse; when you need to work or attend to other engagements, your spouse will willingly give you the space without feeling neglected

8. When you support your spouse, encourage your spouse and inspire your spouse to work hard, believing in your spouse even when he/she doesn't have a really good paying job; your spouse will work harder and your family will reap the benefits

9. When you support your spouse's dreams and stop seeing your spouse as your threat and competitor; your spouse will make you proud, when your spouse succeeds, it will be your success too

10. When you buy your husband/wife a tie, a dress, an outfit, shoes; you are actually making yourself look good. When others see your spouse, they will say you are blessed

11. Husbands when you take good care of your pregnant wife, you are actually also taking good care of your unborn child, thereby also being a good father

12. When you help your spouse to make good financial choices; your spouse will have more money and therefore, your marriage will have more money

You and your spouse are one. Whatever you are doing to your spouse you are doing to yourself. Whatever you do to your spouse or don't do, you will experience the effects. You reap what you sow.

To know if you love yourself, look at how you treat your spouse. Love the neighbour you share a marital bed with as you love yourself.