Take Your Life Serious — Didi-Omah Augustine Chinazaekpere

Executive. I know so far, I have impacted many lives, grow many businesses and help many people. That's my light shining so bright that my heavenly father will be glorified by men. Amen.

Before you envy anyone, including your friend, know their story. The glory of everyman is in his story. If you don't know a man's story do not envy his glory. Don't be jealous of a man you don't know his efforts — he may be your friend or brother; Executive. You do not know his secret efforts. The power of the king lies in his secrets.

Take your life seriously. Set a vision, and take the right steps in getting there. Executive. Take your life serious.

I remembered some years ago in late 2023, when I was posting relationship contents on my Facebook profile; so educated with relationship that many called me "Relationship Expert". I told them, I am not an expert in any field of life; I am just a student of life. And my only authority is the Word of God!

Let me speak from the angle of relationship driving down to my message: no one can be in serious relationship with two or three persons.

If you see anyone in it, check well they are players — play boy or play girl. You cannot be seriously serious with everyone, sorry! You are a play boy or play girl; and you get nowhere. To be serious: you need to be committed, you must be disciplined, you must have a vision followed with a mission, you must be intentional. 

That is what I mean to be serious. Most of us are not serious at all! We are busy playing around the town. We don't study, we don't pray, we don't invest, we don't save, we don't love, we don't visit, we don't check on others. What a downfall? Most of you can enter social media for three hours, four hours doing nothing. Just you know, scrolling! And the funny part is everyone is now a teacher online, some turn into special adviser on what is happening in the community — special adviser on public matters.

Experts are now everywhere because of social media. Executive. We are in the doom days as said. What a confusion? The another part, is you complain instead of commanding; you are explaining when you should be executing. Everybody have an idea, but only few persons executes and achieve to the topmost top. If you see impossibilities, you get Impossibilities — I learnt this from the Bible. What you see is what you get? I do not motivational speaker to speak to me, the Bible is enough.

Wait! What do you do now? Nothing. Three hours from now, what are you going to do? Nothing. The person you are going to be in relationship to marriage with, you do not know what the person is doing. You are not even serious about your partner's life — unserious. You are not even worried that the person you want to date, have nothing doing — be serious about your life. Seriousness is attractive, I have practiced it and will keep on it.

I never attain as NACOS President at Federal Polytechnic Ekowe Chapter, Bayelsa State, Nigeria; by unseriousness. It all took seriousness, dine with Young Endy in 2022; associate with top lecturers and head of Department of Computer Science at my polytechnic — seriousness. I slept late at nights, studying, researching, creating educational contents, writing business plans. I studied business proposal and plan by myself, after I discovered that I need it to scale my business from small to big empire.

This conversation is going to be long. There are some class of people, you should not come close. Seriousness will remove some kind of people from your life. Some of you, are recognised by your breast and bumbum — aside from that, you have no recognition. Seriousness drive some people out of your life, and be okay with it! You can talk to them, but don't take them as your associate, your friends. They must not be in your circle — if you are serious about your life.

The knowledge of the truth told me, not to have those of different beliefs from mine, among me. That is to say, those that is not serious about their life. Do not be deceived evil company corrupt good manners. Be serious about your life. It is only those that are serious in life, get the results they need. They don't get there by wishing and it is not luck. Executive.

I learnt this word from Ernest David Igwe, my good associate; he said to me during a meeting at the evening. He said: “Womanising is expensive, getting married to the right woman, is much easier than clubbing. When you start to womanize you need money, a lot of money to maintain the game.” Executive. And from the study of life, yes, even King Solomon in the book of Proverbs, stated it: he who love the strange woman end in desolation. 

Which is to say, those that womanize waste resources and have no possessions — what a poverty? Thanks be to Jesus Christ, I don't womanize. Stop womanizing, end looking for woman that is not looking for you. And take your life serious.

You have to be serious about your decisions, because the decisions you make today are the one that will shape your tomorrow. Your future is not random. It is a continuation of your present. Today’s decisions become tomorrow’s destiny. Change is constant on earth and in life — thanks to God, I have changed and keep on the transformation. 

Executive. True friends are those that celebrate with you when God lifts you up; also those that are with you when you are down. Up they clap for you, down they are with you — genuinely! I have changed, yes, God forbid for me to remain the same. If you want me to be the same, be far from me. I have said it before and now I am saying it again. 

I played for three nights with (Psalm 1) asking Adonay to drive them away from me like chaffs driven by the wind, those that will make my life unproductive. I want to grow, not looking for luck. I create values, not chasing after money. I am in Christ Jesus, not on God — where is "on God" written in the Bible. Executive. My authority is the Word of God, that is my authority. Take your life serious.

Most of you think I get here by luck. Didi-Omah is lucky. So for real! Luck — you say. I sleep most nights at 3am, I think more than my hands working, I stay offline for most days just to generate ideas, I curate business plans and marketing plans, I studied everyday, I take 30 minutes walk everyday. I write emails, pray three times a day, study one hour on God's Word in the morning. It is luck right! Can you do that. 

Why not take a day fast from sunup to sundown every month? I do that. Funny enough, and you called it luck. You are chasing monthly payments, I earn no salary now. I do not earn money from salary — but you get paid. And you see me getting higher everyday, you called it luck. My advice is do these I just mentioned, there are more to it; you can take two hours reading other books, and one hour on God's Word. Not just knowing, but taking massive actions on the knowledge you have acquired.

Executive. When you see me flocking with millionaires, billionaires, great people — do not say it is luck. I work hard to be there: commitment, discipline, study long hours, work long hours and more. I don't believe in luck, I believe in work, not just working but work with knowledge based approach. Be serious about your life. If you want to be a giant!

© Didi-Omah Augustine Chinazaekpere 

Chief Executive, doacweb.com, Africa