Tactics Tuesdays: 5 Types of DHVs (Demonstrations of Higher Value)

Girls don’t know you from Jack when you first meet them. How do you make them want to go with YOU? A big part of it is what VALUE you demonstrate to them.

One of the missing elements from a lot of modern men’s approaches on women is the DHV. That is to say, the demonstration of higher value (or display of higher value).

What I’m seeing a lot of guys do these days is approach women with compliments, then ask them some things about themselves, then go from there right to asking the girl out. Basically, the kind of ‘game devoid’ approach we have been calling neo-direct.

The assumption seems to be that the woman the man approaches should be interested in the man based on these four factors:

1. His facial attractiveness

2. His style and physique

3. His confidence

4. The fact that he is in possession of a penis

Generally, the men making approaches like this do not showcase anything else aside from these four things. They might mention their jobs (which tend to be ordinary/boring) or they might mention a hobby or two they have (which tend to be standard hobbies), but typically that’s it.

However, unless the man is exceptional in one of these categories (for instance, his face is 10/10 handsome, or his confidence is overwhelming, or maybe his penis is really, REALLY prominent), he’s not going to stand out at all and women aren’t going to have much of a reason to want to do anything with him. Women will often be polite to him, and may give him their contact info, but they usually end up flaking and he can’t figure out why.

If he tries to pick them up on the spot, he runs into a wall at some point where women won’t comply with him or move any further with him, and once again, he just can’t figure why.

This guide to demonstrating more value with women is our guide to remedying that.