STOP THROWING YOURSELF ON SOMEONE WHO CLEARLY DO NOT WANT YOU

When you place value on yourself people will naturally place value on you, relationship is a very sensitive aspect of the human life and because of its sensitive nature people tend to be very careful who they choose to spend the rest of their lives with.

Most men would want to hunt, chase and capture the woman they want to be with in the same way ladies want to be hunted, chased and captured by the man they want to be with, what makes it fun is the drama during the chasing. How they met, where, when and so on, this would help both parties get to know each other better and then decide whether or not they would want to spend the rest of their lives together.

Some people do not want to follow this processes they feel they can use other dubious ways to get someone they like without putting into considerations if the person likes them too, in a bid to get them into liking them they throw anything possible at their feet.

You see a lady seducing a man to get his attention, doing all she can to get him to look her way even when he has stated it clearly that he does not want her, she buys him gifts, gives him money and so on yet this man is still not interested in her, ladies you don't win a man by throwing yourself at him, you will loose value in his eyes, you are only presenting yourself to be cheap, he would take advantage of you and still dump you.

There are men who think money is everything, when they like a woman and she does not like them, they throw money at her feet, they think they can buy her love with money, they buy gifts, they bribe everyone close to her to help speak to her on his behalf, they keep flaunting everything on her, Uncle she will finish your money and still dump you.

When you like a person and you ask them out and they refuse let them be, stop throwing yourself at them, to date you is not by force, there are milt of people out there that would love you for who you are.

Have a peaceful night rest and think about this. 

©️ Kizito Santus 

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