I’m a single mum in a relationship that has no future, please advice

I’m a single mum in a relationship that has no future, please advice

Pls mummy in the house advice me and kindly hide my identity. Am a graduate and during my school days I have these particular guy that wanted to date me but I refused reason being that I was a virgin and am always scared of being into any relationship so I won’t lose it. These particular guy did so many things for us to date I refuse so he moved on with other girls, he graduated before me so I never knew about his way about again. after my own graduation I decided to give it a trial by going into a relationship now with someone else I never knew the guy was actually after my body though I made it clear to him that no s3x till we got married, which he accepted but alone the line he force me and took advantage of me to cut the whole story short I got pregnant when I told him he accepted I moved in with him.

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I won’t call it marriage but cohabiting because he never paid my bride price like he didn’t do anything athough wasn’t that good to me he be@t at any lightest opportunity, which I pleaded with my dad he ask me to come back. I started life over again with my baby , now am now a single mother for the past 2years I left my baby daddy I have never enter into any relationship again I just focus on my son and the little business am doing, now the first guy I met during that my school days now show up from no way I said he has be looking for me everywhere and even asking most of my friends about me but few told him am married so he was I really need to confirm it by myself, so I told everything that happened that we never married so he said he wants something serious with me which I declined he asked me why I told him am no longer the way I was during our university level that I have a son which he felt bad and still insist that he love me, we enter into a relationship, mind you I never asked him anything both for myself or for my baby unless he feels on his own he wants to help us out with anything.

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One day he made A statement that if I see someone who is serious to marry me that he won’t be an obstacle to it I was like that means you don’t have a future with me in this our relationship, you are only after my body, he said he has to be sincere with me that his parents will not accept him marrying a single mom, so I was like while didn’t you tell me from the onset now you have sleep with me you are now saying this but is ok I accept just move on let me move on let just be casual friends no intimacy he refused and said am ungrateful that he Chase other girls away because of me that he loves me and has good intentions for me, which other intension do you have when you know you can’t marry me allow me to focus so with you so you can see the person which your parents will accept he refused and continue begging me that he loves me and that he notices whenever he touches me he notices success both in his business all throughout the whole day I stupidly accepted him back to continue watching him.

Last week I prank him that am pregnant let me really know his mind towards me, but am not pregnant he said I should remove the baby I was like no I want to keep the babe he said if I actually want to keep the babe good and fine but I should know that he is not ready to marry now, and that he will be footing the bills and and I should know that when the babe comes of age I will give him the babe but I should know that he is not ready for marriage which I ask him why don’t you have any intension of getting married someday he said he will but in 3 to 4 yrs time by then he will build his own house that he doesn’t want to live in his parents house. He is the first son oo and his father build a bugalow.

Since he said he not ready for marriage that things are difficult this days me I want to call him and end everything with him I can’t just be good for s3x only and also being in a relationship that doesn’t have any future. Pls am sorry for the long post advice me on how to go about it so he won’t come back seeking for a second chance using he love me as a case study pls ma am not desperate for marriage ooo but one can’t just be in a relationship that has no future thanks Read Original