SIGNS THAT YOU ARE NOT READY FOR MARRIAGE...

Who told you you are ready for marriage? Here are the signs you are far from tying the knot even if you are 40 years old!

1. You have no single vision for your life. You don't know what you want, how to get it and how to attract the right person to help you fulfil destiny.

2. You have no single source of income. You beg to eat and pay bills.

3. You are idle. No job, no dream, no hobby, no vision, no passion.

4. You are hot tempered!

5. You are a bitterly jealous, critical person with acute low self esteem plus down syndrome characterized by perpetual depression!

5. You lack self control. You act on impulse. You open your mouth without any restrain, you go any where your erection direct you. You sleep with anything in skirt/ trouser, you eat without caution, you act any how you feel like without any second thought.

6. You don't submit to authorities.

7. You don't have any personal relationship with Christ. You do not pray neither do you read your bible.

8. You don't know how to cook good food and do house chores.

9. You are very lazy, passive, idle, laid back, slow and backward.

10. You hate sex.

11. You are a sex maniac!

12. You are a feminist.

13. You are a male chauvinist

14. You tell lies a lot.

15. You pretend a lot. You don't tell people what you really want or how you really feel.

16. You are not assertive!

17. You are stubborn, self opinionated, myopic, pompous, proud, rude, sassy, obnoxious, anti-social, heady, rash!

18. You don't like kids.

19. You waste money and resources.

20. You are squatting (as a man).

21. You are dull.

22. You don't read about marriage (and I have books that can help you).

23. You are double dating.

24. You hate married couples.

25. You are selfish and self centred.

26. You love sin.

These and more are attitude that will crash your marriage. You must deal with them or watch your marriage go into the dustbin.

Success in marriage is not by accident. You must work towards it. Deal with these weaknesses so you can attract the right spouse, get married on time and enjoy heaven on earth in your marriage. I wish you the best. God bless you. Cheers!

© Seun Oladele, 2017; reposted, 2021.