‘Not All Men Are Wired to Desire Women’ – Actor Korexx Speaks Out

Ajayi Akorede, the actor and content creator also known as Korexx, stated his belief that not all men are naturally inclined to be attracted to women.

He contended that relatives and friends conditioned most men to desire women lustfully, creating a “false need” for them.

The skit maker voiced worry that having lustful desires toward women has seemingly become a requirement for men to be accepted within the masculine community.

He mentioned that the situation has impacted friendships between men and women.

In a video message posted on his social media page, Korexx expressed, “I think not all men are naturally inclined to have lustful desires towards women. During their upbringing, many men hold dear certain things: family, friends, video games, movies, sports and the inspiring vision of who they aspire to be in the future.”

As you age, societal conditioning often influences you to begin craving and desiring women. This pressure largely stems from older male figures—such as uncles, elder brothers, cousins, neighbors, and friends—who have been similarly conditioned before you. This process fosters an artificial need or desire that was initially absent. To avoid feeling like an outsider when your friends admire women’s appearances for approval or ‘man points,’ you may join in their comments despite any personal misgivings.

The tendency to view women lustfully has evolved into a perceived essential survival skill, one that men feel they must cultivate and perfect in order to belong to a masculine community, avoiding feelings of being unusual or different.

Over time, you teach yourself to find enjoyment in it, even if it’s not truly aligned with who you are. It taps into our innate desire for challenge and adventure as men, so pursuing women becomes something we start treating like a sport.

Some might contend that factors like puberty and hormonal changes explain this phenomenon biologically. However, I firmly believe that social conditioning and priming intensify the lustful desires many men experience. This societal influence complicates men’s ability to maintain strong, healthy friendships with women without seeing them in a sexual light. Many of my friends struggle with this issue.

Growing up, I had female friends and we shared nothing but good companionship. However, everything changed when an uncle or a friend remarked, “Wow, this girl is actually quite attractive! Can’t you see?” Suddenly, it was as if my eyes were opened to the forbidden fruit.

You start to perceive things and experience feelings differently, even though deep down you know there was nothing there. There were no harmful or lustful intentions in your heart. But now that they’ve mentioned it, it’s something you can’t unsee.

On a more serious note, I think that most men are motivated by deeper and more fulfilling pursuits, such as having purpose and providing value, rather than solely being driven by women.

Some men have the most beautiful women in their lives, whether as friends or partners, yet they still seek fulfillment elsewhere. This is often because they haven’t connected with their inner child or deeper sense of self—the core that initially wasn’t concerned with such external validations.

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