NO BODY BREAKS UP WITH YOU SUDDENLY, THEY HAVE HAD IT IN MIND FOR A LONG TIME

No body breaks up with you suddenly, they have had it in mind for a long time.

If a person breaks up with you today, then they have had it in mind to break up with you all the while, some persons would have ended the relationship from their end, they're just waiting for you to discover by yourself that they have left you.

No body wakes up early morning and look at their spouse and say its over, something must have led to another, situations must have presented itself in an unpleasant manner, character must have gone on default settings, the foundation on which the relationship was built has been destroyed.

Bad influence, bad advise, selfish interests uncovered and so on and so forth. Before people break up with their spouse, they have already had it in mind for long, listen to me, if a man would marry you or not he knows, if a woman would marry you or not she knows, some of them would just keep you because of pity.

If someone breaks up with you now they have thought about it for a long, they have weighed their options and have come to a conclusion for a long time, they are only relating it to you now.

©️ Kizito Santus