“Most girls are after money, they think it’s proof of how much a guy likes them” – 17-year-old boy speaks

A Nigerian mother shares her 17-year-old son’s blunt assessment of Lagos’ dating pool, stating the role of money in relationships, especially among teenagers.

Twitter user @nwaoma007 recounted the moment when her son expressed frustration with girls his age, claiming, “There’s no girl left in this Lagos. All of them are after money.”

The post revealed a heartfelt exchange between the mother and her son, who described how money has become a perceived “trophy” in relationships, even among young girls living at home and dependent on their parents.

Amidst the outpour of emotion, the mother asked her daughters for their perspective. Their response confirmed the boy’s observation, explaining that even when there isn’t an explicit demand for money, a level of financial spending is often expected.

“My daughter was all dressed up to go out on a date. After we gassed her up and waved her off, her younger brother shook his head and said, “Before I bring any girl to this house, it will be long!”

I was slightly surprised. “Seriously? Why?” With a look of cynicism older than his years, he said “Mum! There’s no girl left in this Lagos. All of them are after money. If they come here? No way.”

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