Marriage Does Not Stop A Cheating Man From Cheating — Didi-Omah

We all know that marriage is the joining together of a man and woman, not man and man, nor woman and woman. 

But coming together of one man and one woman. In the light of cheating, marriage can not withhold a cheating man from cheating. 

Marriage deos not scares a man from cheating, likewise same to woman. No amount of responsibilities that marriage and having family will bring that will stop a cheating man from cheating and continue in the lust.

Most people think that it is when he marries me, he will not cheat anymore — sorry, that is a lie. Marriage does not stop a cheating man from cheating.

You are his girlfriend and she is your girlfriend, and you are fighting for he or she not to cheat on you. Impossible, if your so-called boyfriend and girlfriend can cheat on you, and clean mouth like one who eat meat from another's pot — with pretence of being faithful.

Being in the so-called boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, does not stop cheating and unfaithfulness.

In regards to dating, looking at the dictionary meaning of dating, it has a date. I am going on a business date, dinner date — it is an event fixed on with a date. Not being in relationship. 

I have come to realise that you can't be in the so-called dating, be praying to God, against fornicating or having sex before marriage. Where will the grace come from?

Boyfriend and girlfriend is not in the Bible, what is recorded there is husband and wife. Being married, can not stop a woman from not being sexed by another man, not her husband. 

It is happening, adultery and fornications everywhere! You are in a relationship or courting, and your partner cheats once or not once — you are driving fast into marriage, having the mentality that when both of you are married, he or she will not cheat.

Sorry, that is story on paper, not reality. Cheating is from the heart and of a person; not something that marriage can stop.

This brought about the word, a lover of women can never be satisfied of women. A lover of money can never be satisfied of money. That's the truth! Only genuine change can occur and it must start from the heart, so the body will be transformed.

It takes delivering, decision and discipline, to change that cheating partner of yours. Because no one stops cheating because he or she got into a relationship or get marries.

The best as a man, be faithful to your woman; the best as a woman, be faithful to your man. Your partner may cheat on you, please don't pay back by cheating, you are endangering yourself and your image. 

You can cut the ties, end the relationship — then move on. If you are married, work things out with love, understanding, prayers, and actions.

Love is as strong as death, sex is powerful as darkness, and you know light is beautiful. When you love right, in the light of faithfulness and commitment — you will enjoy the peace, happiness and prosperity, it brings. Marriage is another investment I take seriously. 

I like making marriages to be blissful and work. Don't just enter into relationships or marriage, know that you are making an investment in your future by who you marry, not what you marry. As we focus seriously in business, to make the right decisions that will shape our compound returns. So it is in marriage, choose the right partner to walk with, and you get good high yield compound returns over time, only if you choose the right person for you not by what they are, but by who they are in person. I believe in love. 

© Didi-Omah Augustine Chinazaekpere

Founder, DIDI-OMAH