MAN WHO IS MARRIED TO A LESBIAN SORTS FOR ADVICE OVER HIS INABILITY TO SATISFY HIS WIFE

Read his story: "I knew my wife as a lesbian before I married her. To say the truth, I actually ask her to bring her boyfriend and perform on my bed. Then we were not married. I enjoyed every bit of what they did. Her boyfriend ( her lesbian partner kept coming and they would explore different styles, it was just for fun. One day I invited my friend and we both watched together. My friend went for my wife's boyfriend while I was engaged to my wife then. We ended up marrying the lesbians. And before we got married we had an agreement to end the do before we marry. I arranged for a party which the two had their fill and we called it off at the party. Few friends knew about this. We have been married for two years, we have a boy together. Recently I observed that each time I want to be with my wife she gives one excuse or the other. My friend also complained about the same thing with his wife. I told my wife that her friend is doing the same thing to my friend, she said it's better we let them have each other. 

Meaning they want to be together again. Meaning all my efforts to satisfy her so she won't go back to such life is in vain. Meaning I can't possibly satisfy her. How do I let my wife indulge in such dirty act? How? She said, I used to enjoy it, that I should give them a chance. It's two months now no show. I reported to her uncle but no changes. What I did then was done out of ignorance, I wasn't married, wasn't matured and had no knowledge that it could be held against me. It was just for fun. She said I should deal with it, that after all I used to enjoy and encourage her. Does that mean I want to share my wife with someone else? And why can't she let go of her friend? I have done everything a man could do for her woman. What did her lesbian friend give her that I have not given her? My friend's case is another thing because the wife told him she doesn't want to have a child till she has enough money even when the husband is doing more than me. What did we do wrong? Please advise."