LIFE IS NOT THE SAME FOR EVERYONE — SO LET'S BE FAIR TO EVERYONE

LIFE IS NOT THE SAME FOR EVERYONE — SO LET'S BE FAIR TO EVERYONE

In today’s world, it is easy to assume that everyone has the same opportunities, the same struggles, and the same access to resources. But the truth is simple and undeniable: life is not the same for everyone. The circumstances into which we are born, the environments in which we grow, and the opportunities we encounter vary widely. That is why fairness—not favoritism, not judgment—is essential in how we treat one another.

Understanding Different Journeys

Some people are born into privilege, with access to education, healthcare, and supportive families. Others grow up in hardship, fighting against poverty, discrimination, or lack of opportunity. Even within the same community, two people may live completely different lives, shaped by factors they cannot control. Recognizing these differences helps us approach others with empathy rather than criticism.

The Power of Fairness

Being fair does not mean treating everyone exactly the same—it means treating people according to their needs and circumstances. A child struggling with learning difficulties, for example, does not need less attention but more. A colleague dealing with personal challenges may not need judgment but understanding and support. Fairness requires us to see beyond our own experiences and ask, What does this person truly need?

Breaking the Cycle of Inequality

When fairness guides our actions, we create space for equity. We open doors for those who might otherwise be left behind. We give people the chance to rise above circumstances that were never of their choosing. Fairness builds stronger families, healthier workplaces, and more just societies.

Living the Principle of Fairness

Practicing fairness starts with small, everyday choices:

Listening without judging.

Giving opportunities based on merit, not favoritism.

Supporting the vulnerable rather than exploiting them.

Sharing resources where we can, knowing that some have less than others.

These simple acts ripple outwards, creating a culture where fairness is not just spoken but lived.

CONCLUSION 

Life will never be the same for everyone—but fairness can be. By choosing to act with compassion, justice, and equity, we can make the world a place where differences are respected and opportunities are shared. When we choose fairness, we choose humanity.

© Basil Mutelia