I'M CURRENTLY HAVING TRUST ISSUES WITH MY WIFE THESE DAYS BASED ON ACCUSATION OF TRYING TO KEEP SIDE MAN – NIGERIAN MAN CRIES OUT 

“It happened last two months ago (January), I came home one fateful evening and called my wife in the parlour to discuss with her about how my close friend, whom she knows very well asked me to help him look for an apartment around for him, even if it will be possible in our own house, possibly self contain apartment.

So, my wife said I should call the landlord and see if this empty self-contain can be rented to him in our compound. But I disagreed with her, I told my wife that I don't really like how the guy relate with women, that I'm afraid one day if I'm not around, he may force himself on you.... That was when my wife told me that the guy once tried to give her a hug from behind, one evening December last year where they were cooking as Bazaar committee.

My question is:

(1) why didn't she protest or tell me the day it happened, so I can go and warn him?

(2) why did she advise me to enable him rent some room in our compound, if actually she wasn't happy with what he tried to do last time.

Secondly 

About a month ago, I found out she is chatting with another guy in what's app. After my interrogation, I noticed that they actually started it from Facebook, after identifying to know each other before.

However, on WhatsApp, the guy asked her out, but she told him that she is residing in Northern Nigeria with her husband and kid, that she's no longer in Enugu state. The guy insist and was sending different pictures of him for her to see, and requested for her own pictures, he even send his mobile phone number to him.

Eventually, When I confronted my wife, I asked her??

(1) did the guy know you are married? She said yes.

(2) Why didn't you shout on him or block him when he tried to cross bandry, knowing fully well that you are married? She kept quiet....

My question is; Is it not obvious that she is giving room for infidelity??