DON'T RELY ON FEELINGS ALONE

There's Feelings and there's Commitment

You will enter Marriage because of FEELINGS, but you will stay in that Marriage because of COMMITMENT.

Feelings Fluctuate, but not Commitment.

Commitment is sticking to a decision irrespective of your feelings and circumstances. 

Commitment is what will make you stick to an action for decades irrespective of changing situations. 

Commitment is what will make you clear your tight schedules just to make time for yourselves regularly. 

Yes, you're busy, nobody is denying this fact, but you're now in a Relationship, you're Married, commitment to it means you give it attention.

Commitment means you don't cheat on your partner even when you meet a better looking available Person.

Commitment is what will make you stick to the schedules, routines and activities you both agreed upon even on days you really don't feel like.

You won't feel like it everyday, don't let anybody decieve you, somedays, you'll even ask yourself who sent you, you'll want a break, but commitments means whether I feel like it or not, it's my responsibility. I'll do it.

It is commitment to your job that makes you show up at work on a Monday morning after a stressful weekend. 

It is commitment that makes an athlete show up for training daily even though they don't feel like it.

Promise Yourself to Commit to the Relationship and Marriage you enter. 

(c) Musa Gift.