ACTIONS TO TAKE TO HAVE A HAPPY MARRIAGE

1. LISTEN: Listen to your spouse when they talk and you must learn to understand them before responding. 

We all love to talk but few really listens and great listeners are so adorable!

 If you want your spouse to enjoy your company above anyone else, learn to listen, really listen and UNDERSTAND them when they talk. Learn to talk less and listen more.

2. OVERLOOK: You will develop hypertension and stroke if you always focus on your spouse's weaknesses. That guy/lady is so cute or beautiful. 

Take your eyes off his/her little idiosyncrasies and adore him/her. Celebrate your partner and overlook the weaknesses. 

You will be happier and live longer. Any life your man/woman is living which you don't like and was unable to change that's while dating or during courtship, my dear it might be a problem when you are married.

3. LET IT GO: Learn to forgive your spouse real quick when they offend you. No one is perfect, not you either. 

You won't like it if someone is bitter against you because of a little mistake. 

Forgiveness makes marriage so sweet and romantic.

Let the offence go, focus on their charming qualities.

Some of us here find it difficult to accept sorry or even say sorry.

My dear you are not helping matters. Learn to forgive.

4. GIVE: Generous spouses always live in paradise. Give your time, love, affection, money, gift, etc to your spouse and they will always adore you. Don't be stingy with anything you have. Freely share with your darling.

5. TRANSPARENCY: Let your heart be transparent. Lying, deceit and keeping secrets are deadly killer of trust in marriage. Transparent and honest couples are the happiest on earth.

6. DATE: It doesn't end after marriage, it continues. Keep dating.

7. NEW SEX STYLES: It keeps the bedroom new, exciting and wonderful. One style: missionary only is boring year in year out.

No nah 

Confuse him/her with new styles to the extent that he/she cant predict your next line of action. Keep that bedroom new all the time by

doing something new.

8. BE FLEXIBLE: Listen to your spouse's correction and change as soon as possible.

9. RESPECT: Stop barking orders at your spouse. They are not your slaves okay. Treat them like respectable adults not some spoilt kids. Show respect, give regard, honour them, celebrate them, respect them.

10. PRAY FOR THEM: Are there some habits in them you've tried to change but no result? 

Try prayer, prayer surely works. It will save you from damaging your esophagus with unnecessary shouting and screaming!

Practice all the above and more and see your marriage transform before your very eyes. You can do it.

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