Which Kinks Are the Most Popular in Each U.S. State?

The Story How kinky are people, actually? And where in America do the kinkiest people live? If you’ve ever asked yourself those questions, you’re in luck. Dreamgf.ai has recently released a survey of 2,000 Americans that answers those queries, among others, and the results are a little bit fascinating. RELATED: The Most Popular Kinks & Fetishes, Revealed The Snapshot While vanilla may be seen as the ‘norm’ when it comes to sex, some data (including this survey) suggests there are more people who have some sort of sexual fetish than don’t. RELATED: Wild Sexual Fetishes You've Probably Never Heard Of The data in the survey shows 67% of respondents admitting to having a kink of some kind. The data suggests that Domination and submission is the most popular kink in America, followed by role-playing, and then bondage and discipline. RELATED: Here's What You Should Know About BDSM The Lesson The things that excite people are powerful in part because they are mysterious. While some sexual fetishes or kinks seem to derive straightforwardly from one life experience or another, oftentimes there’s no real way of knowing why someone likes what they like. They just know they like it. But the culture that we live in must play a role in our desires and fantasies, as difficult as it may be to determine what role exactly. Otherwise, the same kinks and fetishes would be the most popular everywhere you went — but maps like this one prove that’s not the case. RELATED: Your Guide to Role Playing During Sex So however, entertaining you find discovering the sexual preferences of people in Kansas versus Kentucky, it is a fascinating reminder that sexual desire is just another aspect of being a person that we don’t fully understand yet. You Might Also Dig: Average Penis Size by State and How Many Guys Lie About ItBest BDSM Toys, RevealedHow to Be Submissive in Bed