WHEN YOU LOVE TO MUCH, YOU WILL GET LOST

When you LOVE to much, you will get LOST.

When you are TOO NICE, you will be taken for a FOOL.

When you keep SILENT excess, you will be seen as a STUPID person.

When you hardly break your PROMISES, you will be HOLD on anytime.

When you help someone based on AGREEMENT or PROMISES, the person finally achieve it; you will be asked to list the money you spent so that he/she will pay you back (not to fulfill his/her part of the agreement) - money is not everything.

When you love HELPING people, some will make it hard for you to get THROUGH.

When you SMILE alot, some will act as if they get ANGRY always easily or never take you SERIOUS.

When you have SOFT HEART, some will act like STUBBORN to you.

When you TRUST alot, you will be REPLACE in time with LIES from the person you believe.

When you always say YES, some will see you as a MUGU.

When you are too MEEK, some will see you as a WEAK.

Such is life!

I experienced all THESE in my LIFE. 

Yes from my LOVER, some FRIENDS, some FAMILY MEMBERS.

I am not going to STOP because of THEM. I can't CONTROL their ACTIONS but I can CONTROL my REACTIONS (that's what matters).

Some says "I should leave them alone to live their lives their way".

Am addicted to my GOALS but flexible in my METHODS.

I put my LIFE in my JOB and that's RISKY!

Give to those who made you.

Help the poor and remain humble.

Don't expect too much, you will be disappointed.

If you are HELPING someone to receive a payback (either in kind, cash, favour, sex etc) you are doing BUSINESS that's not KINDNESS.

KINDNESS expect nothing in RETURN.

Never reject your parents no matter their evil or crime done to you by them.

They may reject you, don't pay them back.

You were not REJECTED, you were REDIRECTED!

Change your MINDSET, change your WORLD.

Keep to your PROMISES and LIFE will make way for you.

Believe those that believe in you (when you even lied to them); If you have, confess the TRUTH and REPENT sincerely.

Don't break up with someone because you are in a situation or because you want to just to please HE THAT WILL KILL YOU (unknown).

The power of the oppressor is the mindset of the oppress.

If you are deceiving someone that TRUELY LOVE you and want you to SUCCEED & SMILE. The person you love is also DECEIVING you (It's nature).

Do to others what you want them do to you.

You want your lover to be FAITHFUL to you, then first be FAITHFUL!

Stop lying and sleeping around. Cheating is not only SEX. Ask your MARRIAGE COUNCILOR.

Cheating is not only ROMANTIC & SEXUAL AFFAIRS outside your relationship or marriage.

You are not ready for marriage, keep yourself. Chase your dreams and smile to be.

If its only SEX and MONEY that put you in that RELATIONSHIP, then you don't know your purpose in life.

If it is MARRIAGE, sorry it won't last!

You can't leave him: He is satisfying you in SEX and MONEY but you can't MARRY him (same to men) - Hmmm...

You don't know your purpose.

One secret to happy marriage or relationship; both parties treat themselves as one in all.

Both parties leave their EXs, end extra affairs to build a strong bond. 

Then let's see who is that MAN or WOMAN that will threaten your relationship or break your marriage.

Be naked and free to your partner, don't hide anything.

If he or she leaves you while dating... You were REDIRECTED not REJECTED.

A broken COURTSHIP and RELATIONSHIP is better than a broken MARRIAGE and enduring MARRIAGE.

Even CELEBRITIES or SUCCESSFUL PERSONS get depressed and died due to these issues. Some end in broken marriage or relationship.

You don't want them to be in your life and future, then cut off from them with force.

You don't have future with them; break from them without history with them. Distance yourself from them double in times (Including their friends to avoid reconnection).

Be wise to avoid 7mins or 30mins SEX that will destroy your WHOLE EMPIRE.

Be wise not to let MONEY control you to be someone's slave forever.

To build trust, keep your promise.

To receive love, give love.

To be helped, learn to have a helping hands.

To receive attention, give attention to others.

To be forgiven, always forgive.

Do to others what you want others to do to you.

Check yourself!

YOU'RE A BIG SUCCESS 

© Didi-Omah Augustine Chinazaekpere