True Life Story: Please Help! My politician Husband spends his money on his family instead of me and our baby…

True Life Story: Please Help! My politician Husband spends his money on his family instead of me and our baby…

Good morning… Please post for me and hide my identity. Am confused right now my hubby is into politics and earn 400k in a month,
He gives me 100k for house keep
Tho when we got married I told him that every month he should give me extra 200k so I can help save for him because when I met him he lives this extravagant live like staying in the hotel for weeks when he has a rented 2 bedroom flat etc

By God grace I made him see live differently and he saw benefits of managing,
He only had 3 years in office but when I met him it was a year remaining and the previous years nothing to show for it, so am trying so hard that we should at least achieve a house and businesses with the remaining 1 year but when we finish planning when time comes for us to execute the plans he will either procrastinate or give out to maybe his brother or uncle etc without telling me but when things are dawn on him he will come back to me let’s look for a way forward,
He keeps doing that all the time.

I was pregnant so before I gave birth I made sure the house was equipped with necessary home appliances like center table wardrobe home theater etc so when people come to visit it will look a bit better, all this with my savings which he promised to pay back but when they pay him he doesn’t pay back,
I left all because I do them with happiness,
I gave birth I told him I want to start a business he promised that he help me with money but as usual procrastination set in

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I started drop shipping from 0 naira I made 100k in 2 weeks and in this I still try my best to take care of the home and my baby no help and I was loosing myself in the process everything was on me so I pleaded with my hubby to at least get a washing machine for me which he postponded to this month and my baby is 6 months old and I need to get her a baby walker mind you she ask me to borrow him 30k which I did and since I have been trying my best to take care of the house because we just finished child dedication and he doesn’t have money on him

I advised him to just take the baby to church but he insisted in doing it in a big way and no help from anywhere so I assisted him with the little I had which was 50k because he was choked with the expenses of the child dedication now where I want advice is I have just 40k with me tho it would have been more that this but house expenses have eaten it up
He is to collect salary this week so he came to me being the understanding wife that his friend is running for a position and he wants to invest all his salary for this month into his friend because he is seeing a bright future so he said that we should postpone the business money he is supposed to give me this month,

The washing machine he is supposed to buy to ease my stress,
The baby walker etc so I told him that he can postpone all that but my baby walker and her clothes are important that I can’t post pond that, she has outgrown her bed, clothes etc
He got angry that am not seeing the future etc
That am suppose to pray for him that if his friend win he will also be elevated etc.
This was same thing he did during the just concluded election till today no benefit please I need your advice is remaining 6 months of his office.

My husband procastinate alot even when I told him to show me the land he said he bought he will say he wants to supprise me etc.
I so tired of his procastinating lifestyle is when he needs favour from me he will come to discuss things other wise he is this one man squad
It’s remaining 6 months of his office what should I do in aspect of saving etc I don’t want to go back to square one please advise.

My school is about to resume I told him to get the form for me he said he will and since he hasn’t done anything next month registration will expire,
It’s only when I use my own money that things will fall in place.
My hair etc I get them myself he tell me he will refund but he won’t please I need your advice,
All am doing is try to help as a woman and wife please help,
Am thinking of using my little money to get the baby walker and little clothes for my baby,
Please your advice is needed.

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