True Life Story: My Husband Is A Serial Cheater & His Bad Behavior Is Rubbing Off On Me Too-Pt 2

True Life Story: My Husband Is A Serial Cheater & His Bad Behavior Is Rubbing Off On Me Too-Pt 2

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After I came out, I met my driver in my room. That look was back on his face…he dragged me and whispered…you better fire me now…cos I cannot hold myself anymore…I tried to push him away but the next thing he did was pull me in closer and started kissing me…I was scared cos I thought the door was open and my husband will come in any minute…he did not listen to my pleas to stop….he kept saying….tell me you dont want it…I will stop.

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At first, I said, I dont want it but he said you are lying and so I said…ok I want it but not here in my room…he did not listen and he went on. My struggle reduced. I only told him to make sure the door is locked. what happened next is better not explained. Since that day, we have been sneaking to have s3x and its getting more and more dangerous and I feel guilty every time it happens yet I cannot control myself to stop it.

Every time I try to fire him, something happens: either his house rent is due or he needs money to send to his father who is sick. I am helpless in this matter. I am even helping him look for another job. The truth is, I really feel terrible cos of his wife. I know how it feels to be cheated on. So after I paid the last salary in August, I gave him extra 2 months salary and told him to stop coming to work.

In shock, he could not believe himself….he begged and promised not to sleep with me any more. In my naiveness, I told him, even if he wants to stop, that I cannot stop. That I can’t stop wanting it with him. After a week later, I received a call from the wife, she was crying and begging me to give her husband back his job. That since he was fired, he has not been himself. That he has been depressed, always drinking or sleeping and has refused to go look for another job.

I told the wife I cannot do this anymore, I am sorry. I thought that was the end of the matter. The wife went to beg my husband. That was how my husband found out I fired him. My husband asked me why I fired him without telling him, I tried to say the guy was rude and unprofessional but my husband said I should hire him back, that this is not the time to fire anyone in this current economic situation. He then told me that this driver has only said good things about me to him and so I should not fire him.

Oh my God. If only my husband and his wife knew the real truth behind all these. I don’t know what else to say or do…cos my husband says, his decision is final. That my driver must resume back to work and that I should never think of replacing him. My driver resumed last week, he prostrated and thanked my husband for giving him his job back. As we drove to work that morning, my driver said to me, madam, this is the will of God, don’t fight it.

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I need your advise….the goat has entered the lion’s den again and I have no power to do anything about it. When am around him…am shaking …I now sit in the back seat but that has not stopped the bad thoughts from returning to my mind. One of the crazy thoughts running in my head is: what if my husband is trying to set me up? Afterall, he initially sent this guy to spy on me…why is he insisting after I fired him, that he must come back?

I cannot imagine what will happen if he knows this driver is f#cking his wife….its easy for society to forgive a cheating man but not a cheating wife…Its obvious his behaviour has rubbed off on me. Yes, I know I intend to leave this marriage one day but I have not saved enough to leave yet. If my marriage ends sooner than am ready, I don’t know what I will do.

I need advise on how to control myself and stop this man from seducing me…him just being around me…makes me very very nervous. This is a cry for help.

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