True Life Story: My Husband Is A Serial Cheater & His Bad Behavior Is Rubbing Off On Me Too

True Life Story: My Husband Is A Serial Cheater & His Bad Behavior Is Rubbing Off On Me Too

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This story has been tweaked to protect the privacy of the poster and the characters involved.

Hello Lively Stones,

I got married to a serial cheater. I never knew it was this bad but I am at a point where I am fed up. When we were dating, I saw some signs but every time I confronted him, he would apologize and promise to do better. We did our traditional marriage when I found out that he has a six months child with a lover. I almost died of heartbreak, I was hospitalized and I discovered I was pregnant.

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If not the pregnancy, I would have ended our marriage. To ensure that I am the only legal wife, I demanded we do a court wedding and we did. So, while I know am his only legal wife but that has not stopped the cheating. After marriage, he even stopped apologizing for cheating. We stopped having s3x during my pregnancy cos I was afraid of getting STDs in my pregnancy. My husband now used this as an excuse to cheat even more but I was too afraid for my health.

After I had my baby, things got worse. Another woman got pregnant for him. I became laughing stock. After my child’s birthday, I decided to move out of the home. My husband stopped caring for us cos I moved out. My family advised me to go back. I went back and this time, I got a job so I can start saving money and plan to move out when I am able to. Due to the fact that the job is on the island, I started driving one of my husband’s cars to work.

Driving was difficult cos of traffic and late hours, so my husband decided to get me a driver. As time went on, the driver got to know me and he confided in me that my husband actually hired him to spy on me cos he felt since I was not having s3x with him regularly, maybe I was cheating. The driver asked me how I manage without s3x and I told him cos I have self control. He laughed and said I have not met someone who will make me loose control.

As time went, the relationship between me and the driver got quite close. I found myself confiding in him and he too confided in me in alot of things about himself. We both became quite attracted to each other. At times, while driving, he would place his hands on my laps…gradually…his hands slipped inside my V and he would finger me which I found very very pleasurable. I was scared about the way I felt about him but excited too…no man has ever made me feel this kind of pleasure before.

Many times, I told him we should stop and he would say he will…but we end up doing it. I know my husband does not deserve any loyalty from me given the way he treats me but my driver is also married. This makes me feel I am just as wrong as my husband. I know the only way for us to stop this is, I have to fire the driver. But I do not have the heart to do so cos of this bad economy. The money we pay him for driving is barely enough…if I fire him…how will he cope?

So, I called him and explained that I do not want to hurt his wife, cos that is the same thing my husband is doing to me. That for us to continue working, we have to stop having finger s3x. He understood and said ok. A few weeks after, nothing happened. Infact, he became very cold to me. I could not take the coldness so I told him to either stop being cold or resign from the job.

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To my greatest shock, he turned to me and I was scared of the look in his eyes. It was a burning look….he just stared at me….shaking and wanting to say or do something but he held himself back. We drove in silence all the way home. When we got home, usually, he would bring in my bags to the living room. So, he took the bags inside while I went straight to my bedroom cos I needed to use the toilet.

After I came out, I met my driver in my room. That look was back on his face…he dragged me and whispered…you better fire me now…cos I cannot hold myself anymore…

…TO BE CONTINUED

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