True Life Story: Help! My Friend Is Advising Me To Leave My Marriage. What Could Be Her Motive?

True Life Story: Help! My Friend Is Advising Me To Leave My Marriage. What Could Be Her Motive?

I’m awake by this time of the night because am disturbed there is this friend of mine she has three beautiful daughters and currently pregnant I have two wonderful boys by God’s grace.

My Friend since I’ve known the only advice she use to give me whenever I have issues with my husband is that I should leave the marriage, the only problem wey me and my husband dey get normally nah money matter but this my friend will just say I should leave my marriage.

My husband is a good man but doesn’t give enough money but gives outside and my family but doesn’t give me that’s the only issue I do have with him, it’s been long this my friend started telling me to leave after all the talk I will take like joke because am not really telling her because I need advice but to cool off when the matter full my head, two nights ago she came to my house at night and started telling me to leave my marriage she was shouting it as if we’re quarreling.

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I just kept quiet because I don’t know her mission that same day her brother made passes at me this guy was married but this my friend chased the wife away because she is the one that gave her brother money for the marriage although the brothers wife is lazy I have witness it but I believe it’s not her business, my friends husband is very rich my husband is still growing and her husband come from a wealthy family.

I do tell her my husband no dey chase girls but her husband is a womanizer according to her so she told me she cut my husband with another her sister even confirmed it, she is just telling me to go. I’m still looking for a job but each time I bring it up Incase she see vacancy she will tell me a married woman no dey find work that how will I take care of my kids, she said a lot about my husband I just kept quiet shaaa but I was mad inside of me.

This my friend is always wanting me to see my husband as a bad person because of money I know my husband doesn’t give enough money but I still manage the one I see he is not always around but when he is around I do collect extra when he’s in good mood. Now my husband is forcing me to travel because I told him this, I told him because I couldn’t fathom what my friends concern really is and I don’t have anyone to discuss this with.

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My husband said my children should stop going to their house as well. I came to you because I don’t know what to do, my husband said he will confront her when he comes back which am not ready to end the friendship because my husband is something else and she is always there whenever I come to her, and she is the only friend I have here.

I don’t want my husband to confront her or her brother in as much as I don’t like what they did/said to me. And I also don’t want to travel for the Christmas because my clothes are old and my co wives are coming back too I don’t want to go there and be looking different my husband said he doesn’t have money for our cloth the one my children will use I bought them since August which he is oblivious of he said we should wear the ones we have. And am currently out of job.

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