True Life Story: Help-My Best Friend Is Under Marital Bondage

True Life Story: Help-My Best Friend Is Under Marital Bondage

Dear Lively Stones,

Pardon my English is not too good. I need your advise ma. I have a best friend that we grew up in the same compound for more than 13 years. We are so close people think we are sisters. Something happened, my boyfriend who got me pregnant and promised to marry me, disappointed me cos his parents said I am not good for him. It was my best friend and family that helped me survive all through.

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Two years later, this my best friend got engaged to someone that I have heard is a womanizer. I warned her to be careful but she would not listen. Before you know it, she start cohabiting with the guy. And she will be asking me to come visit her in his place. Every time I go to visit her in the guy’s place, am not comfortable but just for my friend sake. They are planning to get married so I am always with my friend, cos we are talking and sometimes going out to buy things for the wedding together.

There’s this day I called my friend, she said she’s going to her boyfriend’s place, that we will meet there. I said ok. When I reached there, the boyfriend was around with his friend. They were watching ball and drinking. They offered me drink and I said no. I keep calling my friend and she said there is hold up. I even wanted to leave but she said I must wait for her. The boyfriend later beg me to help him do noodles, since all of us are hungry, so we can eat when my friend come.

So, I agreed, I went to the kitchen and start the cooking. Like some minutes later, this guy come behind me and start touching me….I tried best to fight him off…he was very strong and he hit my head with something hard. I fell and he came on me and r#ped me. His friend too. I was in pain and so weak that I could barely stand. They now called uber and gave me 10k that I should go, that if I say anything, I will regret it.

As I was leaving, my friend was calling me but I was too weak and crying. The Uber man was asking me what happened…I said nothing. Later, I text my friend that her man and his friend r#ped me and she said she is coming. She did not come until the next morning and she said I should tell her the truth and stop lying. I told her I am saying the truth but she said I have joined those who don’t want their relationship to work to bad mouth the boyfriend. That I know her marriage is close.

I cried and swore by my late brother’s life that I was telling the truth but she said our relationship is over. Cos her man told her that I came and was flirting with the friend and it was the friend that promised me 10k for a short time and that the friend did short time but he did not do anything. Can you imagine.

Everyone I told said I should leave my friend, that when man enter friendship, it used to be like that. Since that incident, I never heard from my friend until her wedding. I sent her congratulations on the wedding day and she replied thank you. I miss my friend, when I remember how everything happen, I just be shedding tears. Its like am all alone in this world but I thank God for my life. I am still managing.

Some time ago, one of our former neighbor called to say have I heard that my friend got a miscarriage? That she almost lost her life in the process. I said no, am not aware. So she advised me to call and sympathize with her which I did. My friend did not pick my call but she send me message and she was raining curses on me, that shebi am happy now. That I place curse on her cos of she does not want to be friend with me again, after I lied on her husband. That I want her to leave her husband so she can be single like me.

This one pained me so much, I decided to go to her village to report her to her people cos her family know me. When I reached Ilesha and told her mother everything my friend did, they started begging me to forgive her, that their daughter is under bondage. That they have been trying to bring her out but its like the girl is under jazz. They said my friend lost her pregnancy after her husband and his friend got drunk and took turns in r#ping her.

I was so shocked I fell to the ground…what????…they said the man drinks so much and forget where he is and r#pes my friend or brings girls to sleep with in their house. That they have asked my friend to leave the man but she instead, she prefer to go to prayer house everyday, praying for the man to change. I cried my eyes out on my way back to village. They say the man is an occultist cos why will a man and his friend be r$ping his own wife?

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I cannot even talk to my friend…no one can…she is truly under a spell. I need advise on what to do. Despite the fact the man hurt me, I am hurting everyday more cos I know he is also hurting my friend. The family cannot go to police cos they tried and my friend denied that her husband did anything to her. I am afraid for my friend. I don’t know what else to do. Please share my story and advise me.

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