“The streets are rough” — Destiny Amaka laments scarcity of good men

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Media personality Destiny Amaka has opened up about the challenges she and other “intentional women” face in the dating scene, describing modern relationships as increasingly transactional and disappointing.

Taking to her Instagram story, Destiny expressed frustration over the attitudes of many men, noting that some expect intimacy in exchange for simply taking a woman out.

She argued that constantly sharing intimacy with every man during the early stages of dating leaves no room for building real chemistry.

Men have lost the art of being gentlemen

“A lot of men have lost the art of being a gentleman. Imagine taking a woman out and thinking the least she owes you is a kiss? Dating isn’t supposed to feel like a transaction,” she wrote.

The actress and media girl stressed that it has become increasingly difficult to find men who are intentional, intelligent, respectful, and supportive.

“The streets are rough for us intentional women oh!” she lamented.

Respect above all

Destiny also emphasized that she never expects from a man what she cannot do for herself. She added that she can easily sense men who are only interested in sex, describing it as “off-putting.”

She went further to advise men to treat women with the same respect they would want for their own mothers and sisters.

“You can’t say you want a good woman but expect her to be loose, it doesn’t blend. If that’s what you’re after, there are places for that,” she stated.

Reactions to claims of scarcity of men

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