My Boyfriend Is Always Broke Except When It Comes to His Family

My boyfriend is always claiming to be broke. He says he has no money at all. But when it comes to his family, he is willing to do anything. He would swim to the sea and bring them the moon if they asked. He is not even financially stable himself, but he still tries so hard for them.

When it comes to me, it is completely different. He does not give me money willingly. I have to ask, and even then it takes him a very long time. It feels like I am begging. I have to keep reminding him, and it is exhausting.

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He does not like to comment on my pictures. Even when he does, it feels like he is forcing himself. He never uses pet names for me. He does not post my pictures. He says if I do not post him, then he will not post me. Is that really how a relationship is supposed to work?

This past Christmas, while other girls were receiving letters and gifts from their boyfriends, he did not give me anything. He did not even apologise for it.

Whenever I complain, he apologises so quickly that my anger just fades away. The worst part is that I like him so much, I always end up going back to him. But it has been two years now, and the same things keep happening over and over again.

Honestly, do you think he truly loves me? Maybe his love comes with conditions. He seems to like impressing people on the outside, but he forgets that he has a girlfriend he should be taking care of. He can buy a new phone for himself while I am stuck with a local phone, and it does not seem to bother him at all.

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He focuses only on what concerns him. It feels selfish. I have stayed away from every other man because he is a very jealous lover, he still does not take care of me. And he always tries to justify it.

What do you do with this kind of Lover?

—Maya

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