IT IS NOT EVERY RELATIONSHIP THAT IS WORTH FIGHTING FOR

When motivational speakers motivate you for fight for your relationship please understand the kind of battle you're fighting and then weigh yourself if you have the strength or capacity to fight. If you have fine but if you don't please respect your self and quit.

There are relationships that are worth fighting for and there are relationships that is best you abandon or else it will take your life. You can not be in a relationship with a person who constantly cheat on you, a person who do not value you, a person who takes you for granted, a person who molest, abuse and insult you.

No, You should not be in such a relationship, you should not fight for such a relationship please let the relationship die, intact let it scatter, you have every right by law and religion to leave such a relationship.

The relationship you are expected to fight for are relationships where your spouse put in their very best to make the relationship work but as humans they are not perfect, they have certain flaws that are fixable, you can fight to keep such a relationship.

Nothing good comes easy, everything good thing comes with a price, if your spouse have proven times without numbers that they love you, that they care for you, that they would do anything for you, but they have certain challenges that you feel you can handle then its OK to fight for such a relationship.

Any relationship that gives you more sadness than happiness is not worth fighting for, but any relationship that gives more happiness than sadness is a relationship worth fighting for.

Have a productive weekend. 

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