IS IT POSSIBLE TO LOVE SOMEONE AND STILL CHEAT ON THEM?

I stumbled on this question! Well the answer is "IT DEPENDS ON THE INDIVIDUALS MINDSET"

Sex and love are two different things, on two different lanes, one could decide to have sex for just pleasure with no emotions(Love) attached to it, one could also decide to have sex with emotions(Love) attached to it, the difference is in the passion and the emotional attachments while making love.

Sexual urge is not a respecter of any man either man or woman, when a person is horny to a certain point, they do all sought of things they ought not to do, at this point it feels unpleasant and they need to have sex to be able to feel at ease. The feeling becomes unbearable at some point, the only thing the person is looking for at this point is how to satisfy themselves.

At this point of seeking for satisfaction because of the natural urge for sex, situation leads to another and their spouse isn't available, probably out of town or for one reason or the other you both are not in talking terms, they are not in the mood for sex, they are too busy to give you attention and so many other reasons I can't put down here at the moment.

At this point where the spouse is no longer an option, this is where your mind starts to play mind games with you, you start looking for other options, sex chat, masturbation and anything else that would make you feel at ease. As funny as it is, it is at this point that an opposite sex who has either been into you or have some sought emotional connection with you pops into the picture, you're now in a position to cheat and you're left to "DECIDE"

"Should I cheat on my spouse just to satisfy my sexual urge? 

I know cheating is wrong and it will hurt my spouse, and I may loose everything. Am I ready to risk it all for my sexual urge?

At this point one who is truly in love would decide not to. That's why I always say cheating is a choice. You always have a choice to decide if you would cheat on your spouse or not. from the process of communication, privacy, kissing, romance and then sex was alot of opportunity to reconsider but you didn't, A man should have control over his/her sexual urge/desires, people who don't always end up landing themselves in trouble.