I Don’t Know Which Of My Baby Daddies I Should Choose

I’m 20 years old. I have two children. I was 18 when I had my firstborn. My youngest is currently six months old. Each of my babies has their own father.

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None of my baby daddies are deadbeat. They are both present in the lives of their children, and in my life as well. What I mean is, I am still dating the two men.

One of the men knows he is not the only one I am in love with, but he loves me enough to stay. The other one thinks I am done with the other man and he is the only man in my life. I know you are itching for me to disclose which of the men is clueless about this love triangle. For the sake of protecting my anonymity, I will keep that information to myself. Just understand that one knows they are two, but the other thinks it’s just him.

Now this is my problem. I am fully aware that I cannot be with the two men forever. Eventually, I would have to choose the one I want to settle down with.

I love the father of my first child very much. I would choose him to be My Forever in a heartbeat. But, it is the father of my second child who has shown me the depths of his love. Although he has a girlfriend, he cannot bear to let me go. I love him too just as much.

He takes care of me in ways I didn’t know it was possible for a man to take care of a woman. Emotionally, he is my support. Physically, he always shows up for me. Financially, he makes sure I don’t lack anything. As a lover, he brings me unimaginable satisfaction.

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My only problem with him is that he has another woman. While my first man doesn’t express his love in such grand gestures, I know I am his only woman. And that makes me feel safe and secure in the relationship.

Each man has a unique way of showing their love for me. This is why my heart wants them both. I know I sound greedy, that’s why I want to break up with one of them and just stick to one man. I just don’t know which of them to walk away from.

—Aisleen

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