HOW TO GET IT RIGHT IN MARRIAGE (WHO TO MARRY)?

I, Didi-Omah Augustine Chinazaekpere, have studied many lives, that of billionaires, pastors, celebrities, the streets and ours.

There are two most important decisions you can make in life.

Leave business and money generation, I am serious.

These are, one; you give your life to Jesus Christ, this decision is very important and most in all. This decision will determine the quality of life you will lead on earth and the eternal life you will have after death.

The second most important decision, you will make is whom you will marry. This choice will contribute to your future happiness and whether you will be in your life, contribute to your personal plan, career and goals. Also it contribute whether you will be able to serve the lord to your maximum potential.

So who you are getting married to, matters alot. Will he or she support, communicate, love, play, associate, comfortable, build, loyal, kind, submissive, respect and be friendly (with) you.

I know money and attention is highly needed. But these are secondary needs not primary. Check billionaires with failed marriages, see how it affected them and their businesses.

I am not blind and wicked; so why should I step on the toe of my woman. I am always a student in all subjects and life, itself.

Seeking for what is love, the qualities of love; “1 Corinthians 13” is the Bible passage for it. Go study it, the Bible have all about life, marriage, business, family, children, education and all.

One thing that contribute to unfaithfulness, is that most women failed to understand this. The Bible said, the wife have no authority over her body, her body is to her husband, just as the church is to Christ. So likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does. This will be found in “1 Corinthians 7 vs 4”.

Manipulating your partner with sex is witchcraft! Witchcraft has these three manifestations: manipulation, domination, and ultimate control.

So any married person who tries to manipulate his or her partner through sex is committing sin in the counsel of heaven and institution of marriage. Yes! If you are doing it, stop it.

Without love, you are nothing. That's the truth.

Love is not emotion. Love is not sex. Love is not the urge to merge.

Love is not staying up at nights chatting.

Love is not a chemical or hormonal response to a short skirt or body figure.

Seeing love, I will tell you, there is “free love” and “covenant love”.

Free love takes, while covenant love gives. Free love is what is poluting our world; boyfriend and girlfriend, marriage with interests, divorce or whatever. 

Covenant love is best, it leads to eternity in heaven, peaceful marriage on earth.

Despite I am playful, disturbing in nature, businessman, lover of children. I am also working to be a husband, a groom, a king, a priest, a leader, a lover to my wife.

I don't joke with business, so I will in my marriage, through Jesus Christ. Songs of Solomon have taught me a lot about love, I mean man and a woman (married partner); I can generate love words without any assistance, because I have learnt that love songs or words is deeply from the heart of love — comes directly from the heart of love.

Don't be physically and carnally minded, when serving God, and when choosing your husband or wife. He is just my boyfriend, we are not married yet — stop it!

She is my girlfriend, I can't marry her — Sir, stop it! It is wrong, I know we are in a lawless world — it is sin, fornication; if you like call it, love.

Don't let your girlfriend, make you miss your wife. Don't let your boyfriend, cause you lost your husband. It is already happening. I am happy that God has used me to restore broken relationships, and make relationships to marriages — and he will keep using me, even in my own.

If you are a good follower of me on Facebook, you will see my relationship teachings. I am a business man, so I have to focus on my field, but still delivering values in all fields.

WHO TO MARRY?

1. Marry who share the same beliefs with you.

2. Know that marriage is the coming together of two imperfect persons (male and female) to build a successful union.

3. Know that divorce and separation is forbidden by God.

4. God is the initiator of marriage.

5. No marriage in the lake of fire and heaven.

6. Marry a helper. Marriage is coming together of two different imperfect persons (male and female) that have agreed on being together and helpmates — helping each other.

7. Marry from where you are coming from (not tribe, it is about personality and belief).

8. Marry who love what you are doing 

9. Value the relationship, put lots of commitment in the marriage. Love is not enough.

10. Love, Respect, and Friendship are solid foundation for lasting enjoying marriage. Without love, commitment is not found; without respect, no longevity; without friendship, the marriage will be bored — boring.

11. If you believe in love, love will find you.

12. Growing up together, is what makes a strong family.

13. Marry the one right for you. (Genesis 2 vs. 18).

14. Marry a father and a mother, to your children — not any man or woman — not just your husband or your wife 

15. No marriage is perfect, no relationship is smooth. Storms must comes, but the way you handle the storms, will determine the outcome of the marriage.

© Didi-Omah Augustine Chinazaekpere 

Founder, DIDI-OMAH