Every Woman I’ve Loved Left Me Because of My Size

All my relationships have ended because of my size. Some of the women didn’t say it, but from their demeanor and how the breakups happened, I could tell it was the reason. Even those who told me size didn’t matter found a way to leave me eventually.

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I’m not a bad person. Yes, I have insecurities because of that, but I try to man up and face every challenge in my way. When it comes to relationships, I won’t brag that I do everything, but I do my best. I stay away from trouble, but when trouble comes, I find a way to resolve it.

I don’t have a girlfriend now, but a man has to be a man, so sometimes I go out there and pay to spend a night with a woman. Those girls don’t judge you. They get their money and off they go until a few weeks ago, when I met a lady with a typical Nigerian accent.

She mentioned twice the normal amount, and I negotiated fiercely with her. She said I would be a stingy boyfriend. I told her I pay what I ought to pay. We got inside, and immediately she saw it, she burst out laughing. She didn’t allow all the laughter to escape; she swallowed half of it and then coughed.

She said, amidst smiles, “I see why you insisted on paying half my charge. I see.”

I froze, even before I understood she was body-shaming me. I started putting my clothes back on. She was still laughing inside her throat, all the while apologizing. “I’m so sorry. I’m a bad person, I know. I’m so, so sorry. Oh God, why am I laughing?”

Before I walked out the door, she said I was throwing money away if that was all I had. “You pay to use this? Oga, why are you wasting money?”

It’s Not God’s Law For A Man To Apologize To A Woman

Now it looks like I’ve been abandoned by the earth and the skies. Girlfriends leave. Where I pay to have a little fun is also making a mockery of me. Maybe God gave me this so I could see it as a sign to become a Catholic priest, but I missed the call. Look at me now.

—Raynold 

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